I've seen way too many communities shatter over people pointing fingers and saying "that group of people have it easier than my group of people" that I'm so very very tired.
Is it "better" to be stabbed or shot?
IDK, that's going to depend on so many different situations specific things that it's a meaningless comparison to generalize. Where did you get hit, what kind of bullet, how deep was the stab wound, did it hit an artery, how far away is the hospital?
Okay, well is starving worse than those?
Or how about people who are starving AND shot?
Or people who are freezing?
Maybe you yourself are fine but you're being forced to watch as your loved ones go through something awful.
Like, life can suck in so many different ways, and bad things can intersect within other things, and some of the bad things can be blunted somewhat with privilege, but that doesn't mean the bad things disappear either.
Just accept shit be shitty for everyone. Help offer care and support and love to those you can, accept it from others when you need it, and we'll all muddle through life together as best we can.