Abi

@AbbeyPerilous@lgbtqia.space
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Recently cracked egg, in the process of transition and discovering out what kind of hatchling I am. Working through stuff, and using this account to talk about some of it. Nonbinary transfem of some flavour seems to describe where I am now.

Probable ASD-haver, definite mental illness unenjoyer.

Minors DNI, because I don't want to worry about censoring myself while processing things beyond using CWs.

Will doubtless be a chaotic mess for a while, and incredibly self-involved. Sorry.

GenderIn transition. Pencilling in nonbinary as a starting point because writing anything in ink right now would be silly.
Pronounsshe/they
Profile PicturePink and white cherry blossom against a light blue sky.
HeaderA quote: "You never can go back, only forward, and if you don't bring the whole of yourself with you, you'll never see the sun again." It's from Only Forward by Michael Marshall Smith, and is in white on a blue-grey background, cherry blossom behind it.

From my local WhatsApp group:

The Welsh Government are doing a consultation on its pro-trans schools policy. UK Gender Critical activists are upset and are trying to brigade it to push it in an anti-trans direction. Please fill out the consultation to try to reinforce the pro-trans stance.

https://www.gov.wales/rights-respect-equality-anti-bullying-guidance

The deadline is 31 July 2025.

NB: Please only respond if you live in Wales! If you don't but want to help, please boost this and share it on other social networks. Thank you. ✨

#trans #transRights #Wales #Cymru

Rights, respect, equality anti-bullying guidance | GOV.WALES

We are seeking your views on revising the draft statutory guidance on anti-bullying.

GOV.WALES
Prefixing my “go fuck yourself” response w/ “please” because there’s no need to be hostile in the work place.
for nonbinary day y'all should abolish capitalism
@leetxdd yay you! And from the enthusiasm with which you talk about your job, they got lucky too.
happy non-binary day to all of the lovely enbies on my timeline! 

I've seen way too many communities shatter over people pointing fingers and saying "that group of people have it easier than my group of people" that I'm so very very tired.

Is it "better" to be stabbed or shot?

IDK, that's going to depend on so many different situations specific things that it's a meaningless comparison to generalize. Where did you get hit, what kind of bullet, how deep was the stab wound, did it hit an artery, how far away is the hospital?

Okay, well is starving worse than those?

Or how about people who are starving AND shot?

Or people who are freezing?

Maybe you yourself are fine but you're being forced to watch as your loved ones go through something awful.

Like, life can suck in so many different ways, and bad things can intersect within other things, and some of the bad things can be blunted somewhat with privilege, but that doesn't mean the bad things disappear either.

Just accept shit be shitty for everyone. Help offer care and support and love to those you can, accept it from others when you need it, and we'll all muddle through life together as best we can.

boosts appreciated ❤️

does anyone have any stories of setting up VoIP for a polycule? i am looking for cool success stories as inspiration.

thanks!
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Got a joke for you. Man’s struggling in bed. Can’t get it up. Goes to doctor, asks for help.

Doctor stands there, listens and nods. “Got just the thing for you. Go to OnlyFans. Look up FemboyPegliacci.”

Man bursts into tears. “But Doctor,”

@purplepadma very wise, life’s too short to read books you’re not enjoying