Ms. Que Banh#Love without mutual genuine nurturing is more likely to be #limerance.
Learn about the difference between #love & #limerance.
https://anniewright.com/limerence-vs-love-how-to-tell-the-difference-and-why-it-matters/
If you're codependent, you're much more prone to fall into limerance traps. When you learn the differences, you can avoid those traps, better ✌️
#Relationships #SelfAwareness #SelfImprovement #BeingHuman #Codependency
Denis 🌏@PhoenixSerenity Oof. Thank you so much for posting this, this is *absolutely* me. Really helpful to have this more precise discussion of it (vs general codependency).
I've had therapists mention codependency to me in the past but I never quite grokked it, but recently it clicked and it is *absolutely* my behavior for a lot of my adult life. So I've been doing a lot of reading and thinking and while changing this behavior is really, really hard, I hope I'm headed in the right direction. Slowly.
But this article hits me in the gut. 💙
@constantorbit Self awareness is a necessary first step to betterment of ourselves ❤️
@constantorbit self actualization usually, naturally follows - when & if, we're willing to do our own self actualization homework.