Ms. Que Banh

@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party
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Family Caregiver. Eco/Social Justice Activist. Disability Advocate. Decolonizer. Accessibility Consultant. Eldercare Liason. Death Doula. Photographer.
Teochew Chinese & Indigenous Vietnamese.
War & Polio Survivor.
ND, AuDHD.
Cat lover. Gardener. Water/Forest protector.
GenX.
AnarchoSocialist.
Radical disabled leftie.
Yeller, at corrupt government, cops & corporations.

Vancouver Island, BC.

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Turtle in a halter top 🀣 how could a cold blooded creature be so hot?
This is called: Codependency addiction.
They need professional help.
You cannot save these folks from themselves.
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I'm a sucker for a suave turtle in the right clothes 🐒
Pay attention to people who call themselves your friends - when they try to rain on your joyful experiences & seem to be happier when you were bummed out/depressed & depended on them. Some people only want to be your friends when you're not faring well & they can feel like they're your 'hero'. If those folks were true friends - they'd help build you up so strong, you can stand on your own. If people like the described above are not happy for you - when you're less depressed & feeling more joyous, less dependent on anyone - it's a red flag that they weren't fully genuine friends at all but had hidden/unspoken intentions & they're unhappy when you're happier.

@PhoenixSerenity I've always hated that. Stuff like you complete me and things like that. No, you are a whole person.

" You are my missing piece."

No, I wasn't missing a piece in the first place.

@PhoenixSerenity @Waitnwallflower I could stand a werewolf tax accountant. πŸ˜…

It's kids graduating from high school season & that means soon - I'll be gifted a lot of nice, barely worn clothes that I can't afford to buy new. These are the times it is awesome to be a 50 year old woman, who fits into size 12-16 girls clothing sizes πŸ˜ƒ Woot!

#PetiteWomen #YourKidsAreBiggerThanMe

@PhoenixSerenity rather hold on to standards than settle for an immature asshole

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Oh no! The horrors of loneliness! Don’t you know it’s better to be deeply unhappy, unsatisfied, or even abused than to be alone?! 😱

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I don't believe in 50/50. I believe in 100/100. Each person steps into companionship, with their full hearted/full spirited/full soul selves & gives 100%. I do not love in halves. I only love in full. I don't want myself or my beloved to fall into each other so much that we lose our own selves along the way. It's so important for me that both people stay who they are, passionately; just allow the mutual loving companionship to nurture & complement the union but not toxify it with dysfunctional dependency. A free spirited mutual love, so genuine, that you never feel caged but feel free, yet anchored at the same time πŸ’—πŸ™