It's funny how some people say they joined because our instance is Finnish. It's true that I'm Finnish and our servers are located in Finland, but we don't promote ourselves as a Finnish instance, nor are we otherwise tied to Finland.

English is my second and quite dominant language, and half of my family tree is Australian. In short, all cultures and languages are welcome here.

Languages currently used on mementomori.social:

1. Finnish
2. English
3. French
4. Swedish
5. German
6. Korean
7. Dutch
8. Catalan
9. Japanese

#MementoMoriSocial #Mastodon #MastoAdmin

@rolle I think it does fill a niche for people (like me) who care about Finnish things and want a local timeline which often features posts about Finnish happenings, but who don’t (exclusively) post in Finnish.

The best experiences are often impossible to categorise.

@rolle One of my favourite things since I joined Mastodon is regularly seeing posts and languages other than English or French. Reading the posts is now relatively easy thanks to machine translation (not perfect, but usually gets the point across). It makes me feel more connected to the whole world.
@rolle ああ、いいさ。勝手にしろよ。俺たち日本人を無視すればいいさ! 😁 /s
@GoatsLive ごめんね!管理画面の言語一覧に最近日本語が表示されてなくて、日本語話者がいるって気づかなかったんだ。悪かった!🙏
@rolle I was just pulling your leg, carry on.
@GoatsLive You can never be sure 😅 There’s been a Japanese person here before.

@rolle I’d consider joining for some insights into why Finns are the happiest people in the world, or on the off chance someone else has watched Crime On Your Mind and has some thoughts.

There are people who like to make the trite observation that “people are the same everywhere” but when I watch Finnish TV, I think, “They must be really different over there.”

@KerryMitchell It's a genuinely interesting question because as a Finn, it doesn't always feel like the happiest place on earth and I think most Finns would squirm a little at that label. We're not really a "loudly happy" culture.

But I do think we've built some things well, and it's worth being honest about that. Free education at every level, universal healthcare, low corruption, a legal right to access nearly all forests, lakes and coastlines (Everyman's Rights), and workplaces that in theory and often in practice actually value your time outside of work. Trust in public institutions is high, and income inequality, while not perfect, is significantly lower than in most wealthy countries. Those aren't small things. They shape the texture of daily life in ways that are easy to take for granted.

What the happiness ranking really measures, I think, is whether the basic machinery of a society is functioning, whether people feel safe or whether they can make real choices about their lives, and whether bad luck or a wrong turn doesn't completely destroy you. By those measures, Finland does reasonably well.

That said, there's plenty that's wrong or struggling here too housing costs in cities, an ageing population, mental health challenges (the 6 months of dark winters don't help despite your location, in the North it's dark all year), and a political conversation that isn't immune to the same pressures pulling at other European countries. The happiness ranking can sometimes feel like it belongs to a slightly idealized version of Finland that glosses over those things.

I think the honest version is that we've made good structural choices over decades, and those compound. It's not magic or national character, it's policy, and it's fragile. You have to keep choosing it. Just my 2 cents.

@rolle @KerryMitchell

"What the happiness ranking really measures, I think, is whether the basic machinery of a society is functioning, whether people feel safe or whether they can make real choices about their lives, and whether bad luck or a wrong turn doesn't completely destroy you."

That's perfectly put.

@rolle @KerryMitchell
I remember going out on the town in Liverpool a few years back with my brother.

I went outside for a smoke and saw some chap crying, so went up to him and gave him a hug. It was a Finnish guy, passably drunk, crying because he was going home the next day. It may have been November, which I guess would explain why he was enjoying the Costa Del Mersey.

@davep
Good that you gave him that hug!! 🫂
@rolle @KerryMitchell don't forget to give yourselves a pat on the back for specifically good infrastructure, especially cycling infrastructure. And also cities that recognize pedestrians as people who should get equal access to the city. It at least underscores some concern for the quality and dignity of life broadly. https://vision-mobility.de/en/news/helsinki-achieves-vision-zero-30-kmh-speed-limits-and-data-driven-planning-as-the-key-386234.html
Helsinki achieves Vision Zero: 30 km/h speed limits and data-driven planning as the key

In the Finnish capital, there have been no traffic fatalities for over a year. A 30 km/h speed limit on half of all streets, data-driven traffic planning, and the expansion of cycling and pedestrian infrastructure are bringing greater road safety to 690,000 people, the ADFC concludes.

VISION mobility
@rolle A really interesting insight, thank you.

@KerryMitchell I’m afraid I don’t watch Finnish TV and I’ve spent so long here I’ve gone native in many ways, but I think the “happiness” thing boils down to:

1. public services (mostly) work
2. you can trust other people and feel safe (mostly)
3. the state is (mostly) competent when it comes to worrying about, and dealing with, the big things

There are lots of caveats to all of these, but then there are in every country. And the whole Finnish happiness thing is I think, really overanalysed. Including by me, just now… 😅

It’s not about being happier so much as it is about feeling like there are no bad surprises lurking around the corner, literal or metaphorical.

@rolle

@rolle @davidjamesweir Personally, I feel it's the language :P Making a sentence where everything agrees with each other and where you still get to play fast and loose with word order AND mostly have it make sense to the listener must be some kind of micro-dopamine hit every time it happens haha
@zersiax Hahah, no niin, indeed! We do have a brilliant language with all its quirks! @davidjamesweir

@davidjamesweir @rolle While I hesitate to encourage someone who has avoided the habit to take up television watching, Finnish programs are worth checking out if you partake at all. ‘Raid‘ was my introduction, and maybe the best, but recent series are good too.

The points you listed are exactly the things we’ve lost ground on in Canada. Public services have declined, and it shows in our gradual fall from 5th to 25th place in the happiness survey.

@davidjamesweir @KerryMitchell @rolle
4. The mainstream press "conveniently forgets" how Finland is causing problems like war, colonialism, and environmental collapse.
If more Finnish people remembered this, many of them wouldn't say they're so "happy", because they would feel more open guilt. And I really think so, because people in most other countries are much less guilty of these crimes. The guilt logically follows from voting preferences, so it's a real thing, just not widely recognized.

@jupito @davidjamesweir @rolle I’ve heard of the Sámi, but never thought of Finnish colonialism as reaching the genocidal level of the North American kind.

Where I live, in Treaty 6 territory, the Cree were starved into submission to advance European settlement. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Bear The repercussions of this original sin arise repeatedly and have tainted our institutions. People are aware of it but very reluctant to redress it in any way.

Big Bear - Wikipedia

@KerryMitchell @davidjamesweir @rolle
I was referring to modern-day neocolonialism. And e.g. colonization of Palestine. Finland supports these processes in many concrete ways, even providing military protection. And because it's the choice of all parties in the parliament, the majority of voters are responsible. Finnish people tend to say they're happy, but it takes a lot of medication.²

¹ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neocolonialism
² https://www.helsinkitimes.fi/lifestyle/health-a-wellbeing/27056-more-young-adults-in-finland-taking-antidepressants.html

Neocolonialism - Wikipedia

@jupito @davidjamesweir @rolle Finland’s policies on Palestine don’t look too bad if this is right: https://um.fi/development-cooperation-palestinian-territory

By neocolonialism, do you mean this kind of corporate bad behaviour? https://environmentalpaper.org/forests-profits-and-displacement-the-brazil-land-disputes-shadowing-stora-enso/. We’ve had many such stories about Canadian mining companies, but my perception is that this is improving since a 2020 lawsuit in Canada set a precedent for penalties at home for crimes abroad.

Finland’s relations and development cooperation in Palestine - Ministry for Foreign Affairs

Ulkoministeriön verkkopalvelu

Ministry for Foreign Affairs
@KerryMitchell @davidjamesweir @rolle
Finlands _says_ they support two-state solution, but they don't. They recognize Israel, and only Israel. "Development coordination" just supports the status quo of apartheid.
Israel, on the other hand, they support in very different ways, cooperating in weapons development, officers meeting, EU trade & visa agreements, political support in UN, media practices based on propagandistic viewpoints (e.g. SDP: "Israel has right to self-defence" (not Palestine)).

@KerryMitchell @davidjamesweir @rolle
By colonialism I mean the whole global capitalist hegemony, mostly US-driven. Finland provides military protection & support to USA, while it engages in colonialist direct action like exploitation, wars, coups, and other political meddling.

EDIT: And Finland does it without public debate or due criticism from politicians nor mainstream press, blaming the victims, etc. It signals submissiveness, and distracts from sense of agency, and thus, guilt.

@KerryMitchell @davidjamesweir @rolle
Hell, I can even "prove" that "Finns Happiest" is nonsense (I find survey methods & epistemics problematic):

Polls say, most Finns support Nato. I tell some personally: "Nato is racist; attacs blacks and protects white power."
They get offended: "I don't support racism. You're mistaken."
I say: "Pls tell me how I've mistaken, I give you 100e."
They don't respond.

So, supports massive racism but self-identifies as non-racist => impossible to be happy. QED.