@djvdq I understand that feeling. But you need to be persistent, take small steps and don't just use private options just fir the sake of it, use them because they are better.
Don't try to force everyone around you to change, but you can guide them for better options when they need it.
Just a couple weeks ago a friend asked me for simple note taking app, since all on the Playstore have ads. I used that opportunity to teach him about F-droid and open source alternatives.
I've convinced a couple friends to get a Synology NAS over the last year. Not because of privacy, but because they wanted a way to sync their files and pictures without having to pay for cloud storage.
With enshittification and rising prices, people are getting tired of big tech. And everyday open source apps get better while paid options are getting worse.
Do it for yourself and when they reach out for help guide them into better options.