if you think that the precariously balanced tower of flash above is an inaccurate representation of what's going on, i can reassure you that
(a) this is exactly how it looks like, and
(b) SK Hynix is up to 24 layers already (not sure in what application)
https://news.skhynix.com/semiconductor-back-end-process-episode-4-packages-part-2/

(The following is an update of a post that originally ran on 1 November 2013. It was republished in 2024 as a part of a series to honor the 3D NAND inventors who have received the 2024 FMS Lifetime Achievement Award.) Let’s look at how one form of 3D NAND is manufactured. For this post