@JugglingWithEggs All true, I agree with your analysis. Appeasement just legitimizes Reform and makes racism and other toxicity more acceptable in public: it doesn't bring back voters, while they lose more on the left. It's repeatedly failed in other countries, but "centrists" keep trying it, because they hate the left.
However unless Reform drops a bit further in the polls, we could still see a Reform or Reform/Tory government. Tactical voting in the by-election was even stronger on the right than on the left, and outside of the maybe 70 (120 now?) winnable seats for the Greens, it may not be obvious who the best tactical choice is.
Especially as Starmer won't introduce PR. But even if he did, the combined far right vote (tory and Reform) is about the same size as the combined left and center vote. Though probably the centrist part of the tory party would split if PR was introduced; in any case it's not going to happen.
Tactical voting alone won't save us. I'm not sure new Labour leadership will either, unless their policies change. I don't think Wes Streeting would do any better than Starmer!
Unless Reform's vote share drops significantly, democracy, not to mention climate action and anyone who isn't a cis-gendered white conservative non-disabled man, remain at risk.
But on the upside, there is a tentative trend to Reform's lead narrowing. Probably because they've announced a bunch of policies recently. Which in spite of the press's appeasement, are utterly terrible, e.g. repealing the Equalities Act, scrapping worker protections, scrapping renter protections etc. Reheated tory austerity with a side of fascism.
So for only the second time in the last year or so, there is a little hope.
Traffic light coalition perhaps?
https://www.politico.eu/europe-poll-of-polls/united-kingdom/
Note that Reform's coalition of voters is just as fragmented as anyone else's. And they're vulnerable on many issues including change change, for instance about 29% are basically eco-fascists (i.e. anti-immigration, socially conservative, but pro-nature). Only 26% of Reform voters are the mythical white working class, with the rest made up by 18% hardline tories, 9% young, Tate-influenced potential brownshirts, and 19% protest voters. Hopefully some of those groups are reachable.
Also, about 40% of their vote are women; hopefully many of them won't be happy about repealing the Equality Act. And maybe that's part of the current trend.
https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2025/nov/13/who-votes-for-reform-and-why-charts-that-show-who-supports-farage-party