Okay so no one told me you’re supposed to sell RSUs and diversify, and I’m embarrassed to say how much money I’ve lost over that lack of information.

I guarantee I’m the only person in my family who even knows what RSUs are.

I’m aware there are books and financial advisors, but it’s frustrating that personal finance is something I have to figure out on my own, much like so many other things in my life as the eldest child of immigrants. Sigh.

@paolamata the one that got me (for about $13k lost) was not knowing that the cost basis wouldn’t be imported as the right value from etrade, so whenever the topic comes up I try to mention it now.

(I was able to get most of the money back by filing amended returns)

@Catfish_Man genuinely afraid of how much I’m going to owe in taxes this year. It was my first year of having RSU’s vest.
@paolamata @Catfish_Man I would expect an employer to withhold ordinary income taxes and FICA taxes upon vesting.

@paolamata I'm heavy in AAPL, but my diversification strategy is just working on paying off the house. So it goes up, I pay more on the house.

Many people say this is dumb, but they (general waving) can't take my house if it's fully paid off. Makes me sleep better.

@ioloro I’d want to do the same, tbh.

@paolamata I'm pretty boring on regular investing. I just look at what mutual funds has a 5 year track record I like, and click.

No background, training or advice from family cause they never cared to get into it themselves.

@paolamata If you’re looking to learn more about investing and personal finance, I suggest that you check out The Bogleheads (https://www.bogleheads.org). They started as an online group that espouse low-cost buy-and-hold strategies.They’re also non-profit, with no services to sell you, which is nice. They have a few books that cover the basics (book profits go to charity), and their online forum is a wealth of knowledge with questions covering every scenario you can imagine.
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@paolamata I have some finance background, and understand a lot of it…and, still, finally getting a financial advisor was one of the best moves I made. Consider it. They have improved my returns well more than their fees, make sure I do it in a what that doesn’t have big tax impacts, and serve as a resource to make specific plans to pay down my house, best way to finance a car, etc.