@Em0nM4stodon because people are already offering their "I've spent 10 s of googling services", quick list of payment providers I've *Actually* looked into:
- stripe (not the worst,as it seems to work for freelancers)
- woocommerce (actually is stripe payment)
- mollie (sounds like drugs, seems to be an actual serious competitor; rates very comparable to stripe)
- adyen (think that aims at larger shops, incl things like risk management etc, which sounds *worse* in terms of privacy,might be opt.)