@eugenialoli @ChanceyFleet Don't know about can't ever succeed, but I do have a problem with nixing all metaphorical usages because I don't like what they're based on.
E.g. "That's big of him" (unironically). Based on thinking big people are more generous, better.
E.g. "fairness" Based on blond white people having more respect for others. (Hysterical laughter)
We have to be able to use new meanings for old words (when no intention to humiliate) or we'd all have to speak proto-Afro-Asiatic.
@quixote @asya @eugenialoli @ChanceyFleet Looked up the etymology of “fair” and according to https://www.etymonline.com/word/fair
- the primary meanings was “pleasing to the sight; beautiful”
- then also “morally good” in late Old English
- usage of the word for people with light skin and hair came third (c. 1200, i.e. early Middle English), and was derived from “beautiful”, not the other way round
You may have learned some pseudo-etymologies and taken them as fact; there are a lot of those around.
@ChanceyFleet Does this include when it is specifically about being “blind to [some specific thing]”? What about blindspot? In these types of contexts it doesn’t seem like it is saying anything offensive about blind people.
Is it equally (or even more) offensive to use “see” as a synonym for “understand” as in “I see”?
@ChanceyFleet That seems a bit harsh. I doubt it's ever meant disrespectfully and intent matters.
The official (Cambridge) dictionary definition of "blindly" includes "not thinking about or understanding what you are doing". It's perfectly reasonable to expect that definition to extend to the word "blindness".
We're not all perceptive, able to observe patterns, or able to respond effectively to cues. I'm sure that's true of blind people just like it is for all of us. And it's especially true for people like me with a diagnosed personality disorder.
Words are hard. And they become harder when they're taken away to address people's sensitivities. I can't use the words "black" or "master" because they're associated with racial issues. Heck, these days I can't even use the pronouns I used for the first 45 years of my life because they'll offend someone.