Either ya understand why most women pick the đŸ» or you are the đŸ».

https://lemmy.world/post/15092107

Either ya understand why most women pick the đŸ» or you are the đŸ». - Lemmy.World

Almost 100% of women I know have personal experience of being sexually assaulted or harassed by a man.

0% of women I know have personal experience of being attacked by a bear.

It’s not hard to understand why women are choosing the bear.

If women saw as many strange bears every day as they see strange men, there would be a lot more maulings than sexual assaults.

Yeah, it’s not hard to understand: apparently, a large number of women are fuckin stupid.

Yeah, where do these dumb broads get off being scared of men? Get assaulted 2 or 3 times, maybe raped a couple, and all of a sudden men are the problem? So super dumb. Women as a species are just stupid, and they have no idea what they feel, so it’s up to us men to tell them how they should feel about us. With violence if necessary. God, it’s good being superior in every possible way to these silly girls.

Where do they get off comparing men to something they’ve never experienced (being alone with a bear)?

Compare apples to oranges then darvo when you’re called out on your misandrist false comparison


You’re being a pedant and intentionally ignoring the message. And men are calling women stupid while pretending to be stupid (or God forbid, actually being stupid). Learn what a metaphor and hyperbole is, and their literary functions. Then realize this isn’t about literally spending time in the woods with a bear.

The words are the message. Women do not get a pass to insult all men and then say “oh, what I really meant was
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No, fuck that. You said what you said, and it’s sexist as hell.

The women said they’re scared of men. You took it as an insult and became hostile. You are the bear.

So, what you’re saying is it’s not sexist for women to say they’re afraid of men, and if you are that means you’re a dangerous sort of man. And of course the fear is acceptable because statistics say men are more likely to do violence than women, justifying that it’s not sexist - just statistics.

Now as a hypothetical, imagine white folks looking at FBI violent crime stats (UCR Table 43 if you’re curious) and saying they’re afraid of blacks. You can see how that’s racist, right? Even though statistics say black folks are more likely to assault, rape or kill you than white folks? Still racist, right? Should black folks be upset or insulted by the white folks in this hypothetical, and if they are does that make them part of the problem?

I keep seeing this like it’s some sort of gotcha. It isn’t.

Disregarding the fact that the power dynamics are reversed
actually, no, never mind. Black violence is systemically perpetuated by a malicious and powerful group of people who thought it was okay to own people like property and still struggle to see black people as human. We are put in prisons, shot, and killed over these systemically enforced biases that we continually struggle to escape from. This issue is political because my very existence in this country is political, and it has to be tackled from many different directions to overcome due to its influence going back generations and being rooted in actual evil.

Women are scared of men because men have been scaring them all throughout history. Matriarchies are significantly more rare than patriarchies, because men have historically been dicks and lust for power. They also have historically been slaves to lust, and regularly take advantage of woman to sate their lust. In both examples, men and women are animals subservient to a dominant power.

That said, what do you think my response is to a misinformed white human who thinks I’m a dangerous criminal based only on the color of my skin?

I prove them wrong.