unfortunately it's often they go to another state and get an abortion, or secretly take a pill
then they loudly announce abortion is a vile sin
that's the republican way: utter hypocrisy
if pressed on the topic, it's "my abortion is ok and your abortion is wrong"
https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-women-who-leave-anti-abortion-picket-lines-to-get-abortions
the question on abortion is not how to engage people with different views
the question is how to engage immoral people who represent views they wish to enforce on others, but not themselves
@benroyce @lovelylovely Yes, this seems cpmmon. I know an antiabortionist evangelical family who nonetheless helped their ~19 y.o. child get an abortion
There are always "special circumstances"
"rules for thee but not for me"
and this makes perfect sense to them
all you have to do is understand what "rules" means to a #conservative:
rules are meant to control the other class, race, gender, sexuality, religion, etc. that is all rules are for
rules do not bind them in their eyes
this is the foundation of the conservative worldview and sense of "morality"
well yeah, i'm not speaking as in we're going to fundamentally change the nature of indecent people
i'm talking about understanding your enemy, as you said
yes
but, you're dealing with a cohort whose entire raison d'etre is dominance through any means necessary, no matter how unfair, and will work hard for it
so you're right. it's just not easy