The easiest way to have control of your email is probably to buy a domain name (such as example.com) and then use this on an account from an independent email provider.

If you're ever unhappy with a provider, you can switch to a different one without changing your email address because the domain still belongs to you.

There are lots of independent email providers, all of them let you use your own domain. For example @Tutanota, @fastmail and @protonmail are very popular.

#GrowYourOwn

p.s. It is technically possible to also set up your own email server, but apparently it is a lot more tricky than one might think:

https://social.growyourown.services/@homegrown/108555028721713290

(In summary, almost everyone with experience of it felt it wasn't worth the hassle for non-technical people.)

By using an existing email provider with your own domain, you can avoid the technical hassles while still having the option of changing providers in the future.

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Does anyone here have experience of running their own email instance? Would you say it is viable for a non-technical individual to run their own email service? Do you have any lessons to pass on? #AskFedi #AskFediverse #AskTheFediverse

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@homegrown I administrated email services for one company, and ran spam filtering front end mail servers for incoming email for another. I would run the spam filtering again at the drop of a hat if anyone asked me to, but even if you're an expert you're dedicating hours of everyday to managing mail services responsibly. For a single family or single person they would not need to apply the same intensity in support, but it would still be borderline whether it was worth it if they knew what they were doing and had experience. Getting your own domain and applying that to an account at Tuta or contracting the service is probably a better use of your time and money.

@wbpeckham

Thanks, that seems to tally with other people's experiences!