No matter how hard you try, your job will never love you.
https://joanwestenberg.medium.com/no-matter-how-hard-you-try-your-job-will-never-love-you-1ebee590ebcd
This article by @Daojoan is an uncommonly honest appraisal of most jobs and workplaces these days. In my experience, this practically always the case for the Tech industry. I'll add that if your work says it's "Like a Family" then it's a red flag for a toxic/abusive relationship.