@Starcross

My comprehensive guide on how to implement effective punishments in D/s dynamic is now up, for anyone who is curious. It's based on my years of reading and experience and plenty of trail and error in my 24/7 TPE dynamic.

A lot of what is easily accessible out there amounts to a listcle of fun play ideas. So, I really wanted to cover techniques for communication and all of the pragmatic points that need to be considered to really make punishment effective, as well as how to really integrate it into the day to day of a dynamic.

There's a bit of something helpful for everyone (hopefully).

https://www.silkenclaws.com/punishment-for-subs-guide/

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@spanksandsnacks @foxy
Yeah, I get what you mean. I have a 24/7 dynamic and imo it really is a *lifestyle choice* - there are days it's not the most fun thing, but we do it because it's what is most fulfilling for both of us.

I've spoken to so many people who are like 'yeah I can't image 24/7' and their idea of it is halfway between porn and fantasy haha

They don't get that sustainable protocols just integrate into everyday life.

I wrote a whole thing on it a while back (linked below if anyone is curious) , because I think people often don't think realistically in setting these things up. 24/7 is basically based on setting sustainable habits haha

https://www.silkenclaws.com/2023/05/20/how-to-set-effective-protocol-in-a-24-7-dynamic/

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@SilkenClaws @foxy It's actually something I think about a lot these days since we're really doing a 24/7 thing for the first time, but we're still adults with a normal life that goes on. As hot as it is that I can just grab her and use her for whatever I want, there's obviously gonna be moments where that's just not gonna be fun for either of us. Sometimes her ambivalence about it is fun and hot and the _exact point_, sometimes it's just gonna be a nuisance.

And rules have to make sense and fit into our lives. Even when playing intensely you still have to eat, cook, nurse an upset stomach, feed cats, get cleaning done and stuff. #PragmaticKink is keeping it flowing through that.