after a few weeks on mastodon without much thought about twitter i’ve noticed a distinct change in my own mood.
i think twitter force-feeding us rage inducing tweets every day was having more of an impact on my psyche than i care to admit.

i didn’t follow much politics and always used Twitteriffic — but the people i followed retweeted their algorithmic rage all day every day.

i really feel like i owe someone a thank you for giving me this piece of my life back that’s been missing for years.

my post continues to resonate with folks. i’m so glad.

i almost didn’t write it. but i had mentioned to a friend a couple days ago that i felt embarrassed i was by my mood change.

i had been letting twitter control my mood — probably for years. i really thought with good filters and so forth, i was in control. i felt in control. i wasn’t.

only the sudden change made it visible enough to finally notice.

@isaiah

> the people i followed retweeted their algorithmic rage all day every day.

I wonder how we can fix that for good. CWs are part of the puzzle perhaps, but people use them less and less and even argue that people “need to be informed”.

@chucker people need to hear bad news too.

but i don’t need to hear only the worst news all day every day from all my friends.

i find a few on mastodon talk about awful things a bit and then moves on to things that are more tangible in their life like their work and their family.

it doesn’t seem to artificially keep circling back to the most rage-inducing news over and over like it did on twitter.

it feels much healthier. at least to me.

@isaiah

>people need to hear bad news too.

They do — but sometimes, all I wanna do is sit by the lake and watch the ducks. (Also gives me energy to participate in the next political fight.)

>people need to hear bad news too.

Yeah. Seems much better so far. :-)

@isaiah @chucker Agree. There seems to almost be an acknowledgement that some political stuff is grim and then it is parked.
Also people have sensible discussions and seem to want to learn rather than shout.
@isaiah I guess we both have the space Karen to thank for driving us to Mastodon. If I'd know how much happier I'd be here… Anyway, here now, happier now.

@WTL i thought this for brief moment too.

but, you know what… no. no thanks. fuck that guy. and all his fascist friends too.

i’m going to give my thanks to Eugen and all the awesome weirdos over here for keeping mastodon going all this time and accepting us all in our hour of need.

space karen’s reusable landing rockets are pretty neato tho. i’ll give him that one.
:-)

@isaiah <considers> Agreed. Screw that guy.

@isaiah yes. This happened to me. I used TweetDeck and never set region on Twitter. So when I saw people mad for something was weird, because all would start the rage at the same time, almost as it was something artificial.

For a time I suspected troll centers doing this for political advance (that happened before in my country) but now I believe it was just Twitter's algorithms telling them that their world is ending.

After a few weeks I notice how I've become more positive overall.

@isaiah I feel like we all feel the same way. Such a better community here, no toxic, uneducated debates about nonsense. I should have switched over a long time ago!
@isaiah @bigzaphod This has pretty much been my take away from my time here, too.
@isaiah I have the same sensation. Did you have a favorite Mastodon client so far? @icecubesapp and @mammoth are awesome!

@albertkinng i’ll go when the icon factory app when it arrives.

but so far i like Toot (because it supports dyslexic fonts) and Ivory.

I haven’t really found something i like on mac yet.

@isaiah Mammoth has a great Mac app. You should try it! I didn’t know that Icon Factory is working on a Mastodon client! I can’t wait! (Hope is not subscription based)
@isaiah @annedraya It’s amazing how addictive that rage is.

@TammyGentzel @annedraya oddly it never appealed to me. the exact opposite really. it made me use twitter less and less.

but the 2nd hand smoking sort of impact it was having in my psyche sure was something. maybe not addicting per se — but potent for sure.

@isaiah Yes. I hadn’t realized how bad it was until I was here for awhile and had some time to decompress.
@Yup_Its_Holly @isaiah i guess he’s he’s talking about Twitter but I muted the word lol
@nuthatch @isaiah 😂 Fair enough. (He was talking about the rage farming on Twitter.)
@Yup_Its_Holly @isaiah hard to open the website to see this lol

@Yup_Its_Holly “rage farming” is a great description — i’ve never heard that one before did you just make that up? so apropos.

i might have to steal that one. 😁

@isaiah Steal away. I first heard it on the bird app. It is often used to describe Republican and Canadian Conservative politicians who spend their time hooking people on faux outrage so that they don’t have to admit that they have no solutions to actual problems.
@isaiah This is a good point I never thought about. Not seeing retweeted rage—which I know others only saw because Twitter made them see it—is a huge relief.
@isaiah @bigzaphod I noticed the same thing a few weeks back. Because almost everyone used the algorithmic timeline no matter how sheltered I wanted to be I was dealing with the second order effects of it. It’s wild how much calmer this dynamic is, and how much I didn’t realize it could be better because I thought I was already opting out of the algorithm. https://macaw.social/@mergesort/109656093466389033
Joe Fabisevich :verified: (@[email protected])

A very cool thing about Mastodon is that I’m not constantly seeing the dumbest of debates like “is SwiftUI production ready?” I didn’t even use the algorithmic timeline, but since those tweets performed well the algorithm would rank those tweets highly and inject them into the timeline of anyone I followed who used the algorithmic timeline. Then the people I followed would tweet their own takes, which meant I was constantly being bombarded with the dumbest of takes even though I used Tweetbot.

Macaw-Social
@mergesort @bigzaphod that’s it exactly. i really thought i was being smart and keeping away from the doom. and comparatively i do think we probably were.
but the entire experience was stilted and i think i had long ago lost perspective about how much it was affecting me. i only wish i had found out a couple years ago.
@mergesort @isaiah @bigzaphod Yep! Same for me. Second order effects is a great way to put it. I’ve been here exclusively since early Nov and I also realized how much people often didn’t want to interact unless you were also talking about the rage du jour.

@isaiah

Absofukinglutely! Today was a good day to wear moose...

@isaiah it’s like you’re in my head. Exact same experience. I was also thinking “who do I thank?”, so I started backing the instance I use on Patreon

@davidfwall and i think the answer is Eugen and all the dedicated people here — and of course, the wonderfully weird folks here that didn’t feel comfortable on the hellsite — basically keeping the spot warm for us until we got here.

backing your instance is a great way to give back. co-signed.

@isaiah Mastodon feels more relaxed, since there aren’t many “influencers” constantly harvesting attention and user engagement, people are simply expressing themselves.
@isaiah I feel like I check mastodon and it’s like not quite there yet. But then I go to Twitter and I get angry.

@isaiah I've noticed something similar.

I may not be posting a lot, but I do read a bit. In the time I'd normally be doomscrolling on the bird site I've found myself just scrolling through and reading about interesting people sharing interesting things about themselves and what they are doing on Mastodon.

I've found this reading to be far more pleasant than what I did doomscrolling before. Enough so that it is difficult to spend much time back at the bird site without questioning why I am doing it, and then returning here.

Thankyou very much for sharing that thought! :)

@isaiah

I deleted my twitter account about three months ago.

Best decision I've made in a long time.

@isaiah Indeed. I really miss the shouting, the trolling, the echo chambers, the silos.
@isaiah Maybe I never learned how to use Twitter properly, but I feel like I have much better control of my content here. The endless repetition of rage is gone.
@isaiah I agree with you completely.
@isaiah This has absolutely been my experience too.
@isaiah good that you like it on here :3
@isaiah I feel exactly the same way. I also find myself logging on to check my feed only a few times a day – far less than Twitter. Clearly, Twitter had me, in some sense, addicted to the doom. My life has found a better balance since I migrated.
@isaiah

Welcome back to real life!
@isaiah About 6 months ago I disabled all retweets using some Twitter filter, it's amazing how much of my feed wasn't people I actually wanted to talk to, it was just retweets.

@stevestreza i did the same. for 90% of my feed i only saw people's organic tweets. but i think it's only so useful.

you can quit smoking but it's not going to make a difference if you hang out all day in a bar with chainsmokers.

i feel like even if i followed mostly people that were filtering their feed, the algorithm was still polluting the river upstream or something. and it's tireless -- eventually its relentless push refocuses some people back toward rage-farming for dollars.

@isaiah I've felt this twice now. Once a few years ago when I just deleted my Facebook account one morning. It was liberating. Then again recently when I did the same with twitter. Done with all that shit. I don't like everything I see on Mastodon but it feels like other humans rather than an algorithm.

@neilgall exactly exactly.

i had the same experience with facebook but hadn’t kicked twitter.

instagram is still on my phone — but it’s killed itself. every time i open it i just 🤮.

@isaiah Welcome. I had a similar experience. It's next to impossible for me to read the other site now. It's just so distorted.
@isaiah absolutely agree, all the content pushed on me against my will had an impact on me too. I feel the experience here much cleaner, and I appreciate that I can shape my feed the way I want.
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@isaiah this is very true. Once in a while I go back to Twitter and I immediately feel the rage growing in me. Whether because of politics, or comments from mean users or war, etc. It’s a very confrontational platform.
@isaiah I was stuck in the rage machine too. Nearly lost it. Addicting and so bad for you. Mastodon is a breath of fresh air.
@isaiah
I too would like to thank Elon Musk for curing my Twitter addiction. I haven’t been there for weeks, except by accident.

@mysturji yes. but also no.

actually nope. not gonna thank that guy at all!!!

i’ll thank Eugen for keeping Mastodon waiting for us.

but I’m not going to tip the axeman after he lops off my head — even if he does a very fine job of it.

@isaiah Welcome to the real world.
@isaiah
I agree, after a few months here I can tell that I spend way less time on my phone and I am more productive and it improve my mood a lot.
I use to go on twitter every days for a few months and it was interesting for only the few first days.
@isaiah Seems like it was a good decision I made when I decided to not join Twitter and not participate in anything on Facebook.