Hey artists/devs/authors/other creatives! Self promote all you want (so long as your instance allows it I guess) and if anyone comes into your mentions talking about how "oh we don't do that here, we value *dialogue* over *advertising*" just ignore em! Most of us want to see the cool stuff you made because making stuff and sharing it is a valuable part of community building too
Sorry for posting about this a lot but this is a hill I am absolutely willing to die on. Nobody should be forced to choose between staying on a site full of nazis and being shamed for sharing the cool shit they made, even if the sharing is intended to make money. Everyone deserves to eat
@eniko I admit to being one of the initial folks being annoyed at people asking for follows. I'll try to be aware of people legitimately trying to earn a living vs people just seeming to want the attention.
@fvehafric @eniko I think how things are done makes the difference for some. Personally, I generally don't follow nor boost (nor police the tone of, FWIW) people explicitly asking for follows or boosts, but I'll gladly follow and/or boost artists that I like, even when they are advertising shop. I understand and support creatives' need and wish to live off their creativity, but I don't appreciate being good what to do.
@oblomov @fvehafric a lot of gamedevs basically only get 1 shot at announcing projects they've worked on for literal years are out and will ask for boosts. Seems a bit spiteful to deliberately withhold them in my view
@eniko @fvehafric
it's not really a matter of spite,but annoyance. Let me flip the matter around: does asking for boost actually result in more boosts, compared to having built a relationship with your followers?
The obsessive use of the explicit requests for “like, share and subscribe” on YouTube and the like has become so bad that it's now its own meme. In my impression it's at best just noise that actually detracts from the signal (content release, sale etc).
@oblomov @eniko @fvehafric Asking this from gamedevs, who generally do this when they release games, which happens as often as once per decade to twice per year seems weird.

@kickback
I'm sorry, “weird” in what sense?

@eniko @fvehafric

@oblomov @eniko @fvehafric
The people you are asking to take "a stand" here, are ones that contribute very little to this annoyance and have a lot more to lose.

@kickback
I'm sorry, I'm completely lost. I'm not asking anyone to “take a stand”.

@eniko @fvehafric

@oblomov @eniko @fvehafric Okay, what are you trying to accomplish by withholding boosts / follows (to posts / people that would you would otherwise boost / follow if they were sans "nag")?

@kickback @eniko @fvehafric

I'm not trying to accomplish anything. I follow people whose content I find interesting, not because they ask for follows. I boost posts because they are posts I would have liked to see in my timeline if I hadn't, not because they ask for boosts. And personally I find requests for boosts and follows deterring. I'm not trying to tell people what to do, but I think it's fair to let them know, in the context of this conversation, what my behavior is.

@kickback
I have never done any “tone policing” about boost requests (i.e. commented on a boost-requesting post saying they shouldn't boost-request). I do however believe this particular thread to be one where this kind of conversation can be had (being a “meta”).

@eniko @fvehafric