@condalmo @brkeogh on the web version of mastodon go to the hamburger menu (3 lines in the upper right), then preferences/appearance, then scroll to the very bottom and check "Always expand posts marked with content warnings"
I really appreciate the thoughtfulness of content warnings and being able to check or uncheck this option depending on how I'm feeling at any given time.
@brkeogh the issue is less about how to read the posts yourself than it is about having empathy for others to choose to read your posts if they are of a nature that would be discomforting to others.
CW are about others, not you.
@elonjames @Sarahw Of course. But that’s still off the point. CW are about you showing respect for others. IRL, we use ‘CW’ all the time. I don’t just burst into a room and start running off about my itchy penis. I have that convo with only people who want/need to hear about it. CW allow us to emulate normal human behavior online to a certain extent.
To repeat: CW are outward-facing choices you make as author of self-expression. You use them to show care for others.
@elonjames @Sarahw if what I’m saying lands that way then I apologize wholeheartedly.
Speaking one’s truth is of course a higher order. The difference between your scenario and mine is that absolutely nothing is lost to me by circumspection. In your case, you lose your voice and part of your self-ness and that it unacceptable.
So, no, speaking your experience is not something that should be CW. If someone is saying otherwise, I would fervently disagree.
@brkeogh and in v4 people will be able to set up personal cw filters for specific hashtags (so not removing them completely from the timeline).
However, it will be a while before v4 becomes the dominant mastodon version on servers.