" the tactic many white women employ to muster sympathy and avoid accountability..."
""... white women are equally aware their race privileges them ... In this context, their tearful displays are a form of emotional and psychological violence that reinforce the very system of white dominance that many white women claim to oppose."
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/may/08/how-white-women-use-strategic-tears-to-avoid-accountability