just lost a friend* because (looks at notes) i didnt respond in time to his "ik ur busy take ur time" responses about his very questionable views on the concept of being trans and i really didnt want to have a conversation after he only told me his views after i made a post about how some stealth trans people/trans ppl that deeply yearn to be cis just really hate being associated with minorites and dont respect people like me because we are "dangerous" for the perception of trans ppl due to our "confusing" identities and visible queerness + i found out hes a misogynist so i was really reconsidering keeping our friendship after finding out he makes a lot of weird posts about women, lesbians, and now, transfems, and i then got sent this picture on another account as some form of one-sided gotcha before being blocked immediately after #menbelike