@ctrledboy @thumper Agreed.
~15 years in #HypnoChastity here. I fall into the "permanently transformed" category you describe. I can't remember the last time I've had an orgasm without permission.
Things I enjoy:
- Increased libido and sensation
- Submission and sublimation of my sex drive to my partner's pleasure.
- Constant reminder of my submission.
None of those things require permanent chastity. Even your memory example can be done with #hypno suggestions. I find that having the occasional orgasm actually makes me miss them more and enhances my submission. If I go too long without orgasms, I no longer miss them. My sex drive dries up.
Also, orgasm isn't a binary condition. What about edging? What about ruined orgasms? What about orgasms without coming? All of these are possible.
Ruins help me go longer in chastity without losing my sex drive. They make me more desperate and submissive.
Permanent chastity? No. Only ruins forever? Maybe.......