@thumper Permanent isn’t really a word I use. Permanent doesn’t seem realistic. Indeterminate seems right to my situation. I might wear the device for a month before it comes off or it might be six months. Things come up that prevent permanent. I’m sure by a lot of people’s definition what we do already is “permanent.”
I’m definitely transformed though. I wouldn’t want to go back to how things were before. I picked this path and it makes me happy.
@ctrledboy @thumper Agreed.
~15 years in #HypnoChastity here. I fall into the "permanently transformed" category you describe. I can't remember the last time I've had an orgasm without permission.
Things I enjoy:
- Increased libido and sensation
- Submission and sublimation of my sex drive to my partner's pleasure.
- Constant reminder of my submission.
None of those things require permanent chastity. Even your memory example can be done with #hypno suggestions. I find that having the occasional orgasm actually makes me miss them more and enhances my submission. If I go too long without orgasms, I no longer miss them. My sex drive dries up.
Also, orgasm isn't a binary condition. What about edging? What about ruined orgasms? What about orgasms without coming? All of these are possible.
Ruins help me go longer in chastity without losing my sex drive. They make me more desperate and submissive.
Permanent chastity? No. Only ruins forever? Maybe.......