Francis Grimke, Presbyterian minister, offers a moral assessment of his day. He has hopes for Black people as he believes, North and South, some white people see that Black people are human, and full citizens with rights, both civil and political. Not a great many, but some.

Can these words about our history be said in schools and universities today? In many pulpits?

How can you give hope to others?
#christian #cedaw #exfundie #goodvibes #godlistens

Love the sinner, hate the sin?

Okay lemme try

Love the believer, hate the belief

Nope no takebacksies now

#exmo #exmormon #exfundie #exchristian #exreligious

Leonard Black was a Baptist pastor who escaped slavery. “Slave-tyrants” will stand before the Almighty bar of retribution. He quotes Thomas Jefferson, who said he trembled for his country when he realized that God is just.

In contrast, today, it seems that nostalgia for slavery is making a comeback. The divine bar of retribution is now held over the heads of those complain of injustice.

How can you speak out against stupendous wrongs?

#christian #cedaw #exfundie #goodvibes #godlistens

Charles Spurgeon, particular Baptist, on sham conversion. England took credit for being Christian while forcing countries to import opium at gunpoint. And it had the worst record for irresponsible alcohol use. This means ya ain’t converted, mates.

Do we want godly credit for 100% obedience, but only for the favorite virtues we think we can pull off?

How can you exercise moderation, and support fair trade?

#christian #kingdomminded #neighborsinneed #exfundie #homesforall

Hi y'all.
Starting this fresh (anonymous for now) account to connect with fellow #exvangelicals #exSBC #exGOP and others that have gone through deconstruction (#exMo #exJW #exfundie #exCult) we have a lot in common. I'd love to build community and common resources that are helpful across these groups. This is me taking a first step towards some of my longer term ideas in this space.

If you have resources to share or are interested in new resources or just wanna chat, reach out.

Growing up without access to most popular culture means that there are still many cultural touchstones I haven't yet caught up on. Earlier this week, I watched The Matrix for the first time. I have not stopped thinking about it since. I've watched clips of my favorite scenes and behind the scenes YouTube videos, read some articles...

And I also realized that the "sunglasses people" in Free Guy is a nod to this masterpiece. The more you know!

#exorthodox #OffTheDerech #Matrix #exfundie

I've never met someone who detransitioned but I've met *a lot* of people who refuse to speak to their MAGA Q-Anon bathed-in-the-blood-of-White-Christ antivax relatives.

You all keep talking about 'regret' for trans kids. I regret ever being exposed to fundamentalism, I will forever be dealing with CPTSD consequences from the damage.

#ExCult #ExFundie #ExVangelical #CPTSD

edit - CW sorry
Akkoma

There are reports that all Jehovah's Witness congregations in Pennsylvania are being subpoenaed for records relating to CSA going back to 1987. JWs keep secret internal records, like many other seclusive fundamentalist churches. They hide behind 'clergy-penitent privilege' to protect abusers.

This is a huge step forward. Let's do this to all the fundamentalist cults. Children are stuck in these authoritative environments, they don't know who to turn to, they are taught not to trust people like teachers or guidance counselors, so abuse is kept under wraps within the controlling environment. It's even worse for kids who are home schooled or in private religious schools.

#exJW #exCult #exFundie #ReligiousAbuse

https://youtu.be/s84pgnRJtWg edit - relevant part of the video is at around the 1 hour mark, maybe a few minutes before.
Akkoma

Tonight in #therapy we talked about Religious Trauma Syndrome (#RTS). It was a *rough* session. Rough.

I've been going to therapy every week for 3 years now, peeling away layers and digging deep. Tonight my shovel hit something solid: The Church. Specifically, the evangelical church. The source of emotional vacancy in our family.

Grief. Anger. Trauma. Unacknowledged harm on so many levels.

Tonight was rough. Goddamn.

#ExFundie
#ExvangelicalGrief
#Exvangelical
#ChurchTrauma

I feel like I post this everyday but anyway.... We spend a lot of time trying to describe what's wrong with conservatives. either they're ignorant, misinformed, hypocritical, afraid, etc. I experienced a fundamentalist Christian upbringing, and I believe that is the root problem, one we don't point to enough.

Fundamentalist Christianity teaches you to trust authority without thinking. It teaches you that anyone who makes you feel uncertain or challenged is literally Satanic. It teaches you that when science/fact conflicts with belief, you need to stick to belief even harder than before. It teaches parents that they should have absolute control over their children, and that kids should ignore and repress any thoughts that don't conform to what their church teaches. And of course it teaches you that sex and gender are God-given and women are genetically intended to be in subjection to men.

We shouldn't be surprised that people who have been poisoned by this idealogy for decades literally can't make informed decisions anymore. They are easy to manipulate because they're swimming in brainwash soup every day. It goes beyond bad judgement or misinformation, it's a mindset that disconnects you from reality. US conservatives will never make sense until we come to terms with how mind control works.

#ExFundie #Exvangelical #ExCult
Akkoma