Remembering a backwards glance that could simultaneously hold so little and yet so very much. #GoodbyeMom #GoodbyeDad #StillSayingGoodbye

Photo: Leaving my hometown in the rearview mirror after a weekend visit for my mother's funeral. Photo taken October 27, 2017.

Once again, here is quite possibly THE best photo ever taken of Milo (1/9/2003 - 3/27/2020): "Christmas in His Eyes."

(📸 Photo taken 12/19/2014. You can see our tree reflected in both of his eyes). #cat #cats #orange #ginger #gingercat #kitteh #Christmas #lights #tree #reflection #InHisEyes #GoodbyeMilo #StillSayingGoodbye #memories

10 years ago today, a little levity in the wake of Dad's passing: After my sister deleted Dad's many "pocket pics" (i.e., pics taken inside his pants pocket) from his cell phone, Mom asked, "Why are there so many pictures of dark squares on Dad's cellphone?"

#Funny #memories #GoodbyeDad #StillSayingGoodbye #TenYearsAgo

The Tenth Anniversary of My Father's Death

"How we deal with death is at least as important as how we deal with life." –James T. Kirk I woke up at some point between midnight and 7am ...

May Day, Beltane, etc. There are many events observed on this date. For me, this day marks the beginning of a vigil for my father's final journey. So, ten years later, and this memory of Dad tugging my arm and mouthing "Let's go home" still hits my heart. #MayDay #OneWhoIsRememberedStillLives #GoodbyeDad #StillSayingGoodbye

Ten years ago today, I returned to my day job after spending three weeks visiting my father in the Cleveland Clinic.

I think I remembered everyone's name. But I could be mistaken.

#memories #GoodbyeDad #StillSayingGoodbye #10Years

Ten years ago today in Dad's final journey, some doctor or technician apparently declared, "His lungs are beautiful!"

So, the problem wasn't in his lungs. Other scans indicated deficient diaphragm function on both sides, but that was a "what" not a "why" or "how." So, at this point in Dad's Cleveland Clinic stay, it was still: Scan, evaluate, eliminate another theory, and repeat.

#ClevelandClinic #StillSayingGoodbye #GoodbyeDad #MissYouDad

...IN HONOR OF MY FATHER.

This will be my first Christmas without you.

Man, that really hit me on the flight yesterday.

#Christmas #Memories #GoodbyeDad #StillSayingGoodbye #Physics #Metaphysics

Once again (well, first time on Mastodon), here is quite possibly THE best photo ever taken of Milo: "Christmas in His Eyes."

(📸 Photo taken 12/19/2014. You can see our tree reflected in both of his eyes). #cat #cats #orange #ginger #gingercat #kitteh #Christmas #lights #tree #reflection #InHisEyes #GoodbyeMilo #StillSayingGoodbye #memories