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Stepping Into Softness: Introducing the 30-Day Soft Bruja Challenge and a Little Bit of Me

There are seasons in life when the world feels too loud, too heavy, too demanding. Seasons when your mind is cluttered with a thousand to-do lists. Seasons when you feel stretched thin between caring for others, pursuing your dreams, and trying to hold on to the tiny rituals that remind you who you are. Lately, I have been in one of those seasons. My writing, my family, my career, my creative journey, and the emotional weight I carry all collided at once. And while I kept moving, I could feel myself drifting further away from the quiet parts of my spirit.

So instead of pushing harder, I decided to soften.
I needed a gentle reset.
I needed ritual.
I needed magic.
I needed a return to self.

That is how the 30-Day Soft Bruja Challenge was born.

Before I tell you what the challenge looks like, let me introduce myself to those who are new here, because who I am deeply shapes what this challenge is about.

30 days soft bruja challenge by Have a Cup of Johanny

Who I Am and Why I Created This Space

My name is Johanny “Joa” Ortega, a Dominican American writer, indie author, and storyteller who lives at the crossroads of magical realism, psychological horror, and cultural identity. I write for the girl who felt split between two cultures. The girl who grew up with her mother’s stories, her grandmother’s rituals, and the unspoken rules of survival in immigrant households. The girl who felt ordinary on the outside but carried storms on the inside.

That girl is me.
And that girl is Marisol, the main character of my novel The Ordinary Bruja.

I grew up around a particular kind of magic. Not the witchy aesthetic that dominates social media, but the quiet, subtle magic that lives in immigrant homes. The rosaries that hang on door handles. The prayers whispered over boiling pots. The superstitions that become second nature. The spiritual cleansing your mother insists on even when she never calls it brujería. The moments that feel divine and ancestral at the same time.

I write from that place.
I create from that place.
I live from that place.

But somewhere in the last few months, as life became overwhelming, I drifted away from my softer routines. I forgot the power of slow mornings, intentional nights, grounding rituals, and ancestral whispers. I forgot the magic woven into the everyday.

So I created a challenge that would guide me back.
And then I realized… many of you might need that same gentle path too.

What Is the 30-Day Soft Bruja Challenge?

This challenge is a month-long journey designed to help you reconnect with yourself through small, cozy, witchy, culturally rooted prompts. It is not about becoming a witch or practicing a specific spiritual path. It is about honoring the ways magic naturally shows up in your life. It is about softness, self-care, intuition, and cultural memory.

Each day gives you a simple prompt that encourages reflection, creativity, and grounding energy. Some are practical. Some are emotional. Some are nostalgic. Some are spiritual. But none of them are overwhelming. This challenge is meant to feel nourishing, not stressful.

Some examples include:

  • your morning ritual
  • your favorite protective charm
  • your favorite tea
  • a superstition you still carry
  • a cozy night routine
  • your favorite tree
  • a one word spell
  • a message to your younger self
  • a gratitude ritual

Every prompt is an invitation. A moment to slow down and reconnect with your intuition. A pause in your day to ask yourself what you need, what you remember, and what you hope to reclaim.

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Why Soft Bruja Energy Matters Right Now

Soft bruja energy is gentle and grounding. It is the opposite of hustle culture, perfection culture, and the need to constantly perform. Soft bruja energy says:

You do not have to be powerful in loud ways to be powerful.
You do not have to be fierce to be worthy.
Your intuition deserves your attention.
Your softness is not a weakness.
Your culture is a source of magic.
Your emotions matter.
Your rituals matter.
Your spirit matters.

For many of us, especially those who grew up in immigrant families or culturally mixed spaces, softness was not always safe or encouraged. Strength meant silence. Survival meant hustle. Our mothers and grandmothers didn’t always have the luxury of softness.

We do.

This challenge honors them by honoring ourselves.
It is healing the line by healing the individual.

How the Challenge Connects to My Writing

If you have been following my journey, you know that my upcoming novel The Ordinary Bruja explores themes of identity, ancestral memory, psychological warfare, and the quiet magic that lives in the ordinary. Marisol, the main character, spends her life doubting herself. She feels small. She feels disconnected from her culture and her worth. She feels haunted in more ways than one.

Her journey is about remembering who she is.
Remembering where she comes from.
And remembering the magic she carries.

The Soft Bruja Challenge is not a marketing gimmick for the book. It is a reflection of its emotional heart. A way for readers to understand the atmosphere of the story through lived, gentle experience.

When you light a candle with intention, when you walk a path that grounds you, when you hold an object that reminds you of home, when you speak a word that feels like a spell, you are connecting to the same emotional world Marisol walks through.

This challenge invites you into the atmosphere of the book long before you turn the first page.

An Invitation to Begin

Whether you join every day or only some days, whether you post about it or keep it private, this challenge is yours to shape. You can journal, film, photograph, meditate, or simply take a quiet breath for each prompt. You can move through the days in order or follow them intuitively.

The point is not perfection.
The point is connection.

If you are feeling tired, overwhelmed, spiritually drained, creatively blocked, or simply curious about reconnecting with your inner magic, this challenge is your soft landing place.

I invite you to walk with me for the next thirty days.
To soften.
To remember.
To breathe.
To return.

Your magic has always been there. Let’s uncover it together.

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Friday Feature: 5 Self-Development Books That Heal Like Spells

There are books that teach you how to think—and then there are books that teach you how to feel.
The ones that hold a mirror to your spirit, call you out with love, and whisper, You’ve got this, mija.

These are the books that don’t just sit on your shelf—they live in your bloodstream. They remind you that growth isn’t about perfection; it’s about healing, reclaiming, and remembering your worth.

Today, I’m sharing five self-development books that heal like spells—guides for the mind, body, and soul that help you break cycles, nurture your inner peace, and reconnect with your roots.

1. The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz

A timeless spiritual guide based on ancient Toltec wisdom, The Four Agreements distills life into four deceptively simple truths:

  • Be impeccable with your word.
  • Don’t take anything personally.
  • Don’t make assumptions.
  • Always do your best.

These lessons are the foundation of emotional freedom. Every time I reread this book, I’m reminded how our words—especially the ones we say to ourselves—can either curse or bless our lives.

Why it heals: It helps you unlearn people-pleasing and reclaim your peace.

2. The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk

Healing doesn’t start in the mind—it begins in the body. This groundbreaking book explains how trauma physically embeds itself in our nervous systems and how movement, mindfulness, and connection help release it.

For those of us who grew up in survival mode—always “on,” always bracing—it’s a revelation. It validates the exhaustion you can’t explain and reminds you that you’re not broken; you’re protecting yourself.

Why it heals: Because it reminds you that rest, not productivity, is the real recovery and that even when you forget the body remembers so you might as well come to head with those memories so you can begin to heal.

3. Self-Care for Latinas by Raquel Reichard

This one feels like a warm cafecito with your best friend and abuela rolled into one. Self-Care for Latinas isn’t about bubble baths—it’s about reclaiming joy, setting boundaries, and building a wellness practice rooted in culture and community.

Reichard talks about the cultural pressures that often make self-care feel selfish for Latinas, and she flips that narrative on its head. It’s practical, affirming, and empowering in the most grounded way.

Why it heals: Because it centers you—your culture, your rest, your right to joy.

4. Mamá Didn’t Raise a Pendeja by Sandra Hinojosa Ludwig

This book is the pep talk every recovering good girl needs. Ludwig mixes humor, spiritual insight, and straight-up tough love to help Latinas reconnect with self-worth, intuition, and abundance.

It’s a reminder that generational strength runs deep, but so do generational wounds—and healing both is part of the journey. It’s bold, bilingual, and refreshingly honest.

Why it heals: Because it teaches you how to take up space without guilt and lead with both corazón and boundaries.

5. Break the Cycle: A Guide to Healing Intergenerational Trauma by Dr. Mariel Buqué

Dr. Buqué’s book is a masterclass in healing from the inside out. She unpacks how family trauma travels across generations and how we can stop carrying pain that isn’t ours.

For me, it connected so much to The Ordinary Bruja’s core theme—how silence and self-doubt pass down like heirlooms until someone decides to end the pattern. Buqué gives practical tools for emotional regulation, ancestral healing, and self-forgiveness.

Why it heals: Because it shows that breaking cycles isn’t betrayal—it’s love in its purest form.

Why These Books Matter

Each of these books offers a different kind of magic:

  • The Four Agreements – Spiritual clarity
  • The Body Keeps the Score – Emotional embodiment
  • Self-Care for Latinas – Cultural grounding
  • Mamá Didn’t Raise a Pendeja – Empowered identity
  • Break the Cycle – Generational healing

Together, they form a spiritual toolkit for growth—rooted in culture, compassion, and courage.

Final Reflection

Healing isn’t linear. Some days you’ll feel like a warrior; others, like you’re unraveling. That’s okay. Growth is messy, magical, and ongoing.

When I read these books, I don’t just highlight sentences—I highlight truths. They remind me that I come from strength, softness, and resilience. And they remind me that self-development, especially for Latinas, isn’t about becoming new—it’s about remembering who we’ve always been.

So, if you’re looking for books that don’t just speak to your mind but to your spirit, start here.
Each one is a spell for self-love, a prayer for peace, and a guide back to yourself.

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The Heroine’s Journey of Marisol Espinal: Finding Power in Wholeness

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De Eso No Se Habla: The Cost of Our Cultural Silence

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If you call them, their spirits will come. The past seven generations are there for you. Even if one was weak in life, they can be strong now. And there are more than enough to even out any weak energies.

You can honour them with a small altar in your house or living space, by having their pictures or names displayed there, by giving them a song or a prayer, and by inviting them to feasts and parties by giving them a plate of food.

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Disconnecting from your ancestors can deprive you of all that, leave you more vulnerable to life's knocks, leave you with a sense of 'I don't belong', and perhaps trying to cover insecurity with bluster or arrogance.

Even if you don't know exactly who your ancestors were, they are still there for you. You can still honour them.

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