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New job celebration meal complete. Don't eat this fancy very often, but worth it.
Me and Leigh at the concert on Sunday. She's one of the reasons this year is going so well for me. She brings true happiness and joy back into my life, and I'm so glad we realized we loved each other.

Well, it's pretty much healed up (at least enough to not have any redness / swelling), and I'm so happy with the results. Got this done on Saturday, by Tanner at Hearts & Hands in Orem.

Symbolizes my 25 year marriage, and the 5-10 years of caregiving for my wife that I did at the end of it.

For the uninitiated, the central symbol is from Elantris, and means Love. The outer text is a slightly modified version of the Second Ideal of the Windrunners, from Stormlight Archive.

I may get a couple more eventually. I have ideas. But I'm very pleased with this as my first tattoo.

#cosmere #tattoo

Today I received the Bridge Four pendant from Badali, and added it to my chain to hang with my wife's Aon Omi pendant.

Last night, I finished what is probably a nearly-final draft of my reference art for my first tattoo, also themed after the Cosmere.

Feeling better than I would have expected to by now... but I'm glad I do. Still much healing and growth ahead, but I'm in a good place, and able to do what my wife told me many times that she wanted: To keep going, and not let her death destroy me. I dunno about the part where she wanted me to find someone else. I'll probably just let that happen naturally if at all. I'm comfortable being a loner, at least for now.

#grief #loss #cosmere #stormlightarchives #tattoo

Here's a blast from the past. Me and my late wife of 25 years, back when we were just dating. This was probably taken in 1998.
Oops. Somehow posted the same picture twice. Here's the other one I wanted to share.

Logged my wife's FFXIV account in one last time, and took a few screenshots with her in a beautiful location, then left her logged out there.

Goodbye, Tarynn Nekoi. I'll never forget you.

#ffxiv #loss

Went out for a hike this morning, and had a great time. Didn't take many pictures, but really liked these ones.

#photography #landscape #nature #hiking

Went out this morning for some nature therapy. Of course I took my camera with me, and grabbed this shot up at the skyline. So nice to get out into nature and just relax for a couple hours.

#photography #nature