Seeking advice re traveling to Mexico as a trans woman

Having been invited to a wedding in Mexico, the issue of traveling as a trans woman to a new part of the world looms large. The main issue, I think, is my passport. While the photo reflects me, the name and gender do not. Is Mexico safe for me?

'passing' is not usually a problem, but then there is the issue of traveling as a queer couple (with my wife and child).

There are sacrifices I'd have to make in order to make this trip possible... Is it worth the hassle and stress?

Was my bilateral cryptorchidism an early indicator of being trans? I can't help but feel there is a link, but who knows?

It's a thought that comes to mind from time to time, but it has been brought back following recent wrist surgery for De Quervain's tenosynovitis. More than two weeks after being operated on, the nerves in my thumb remain, frankly, fucked. Completely numb in some places, pins ans needled in some, and random excruciating pain in others.

But it is the numbness that's intriguing. For as long as I have been aware of such things, I noted a complete lack of sensitivity on one side of my genitals. Nothing. It's so similar to the thumb numbness, it's hard not to draw comparisons....

Reflecting back over the years, it's hard not to ask 'what the fuck did I do to deserve that?'. Or have I just been outrageously unlucky in who I've met in life.

- Neglectful parents when growing up
- Parental violence and abuse
(None of the great is parent-related)
- Sexually assaulted
- Physically assaulted
- Sexually assaulted by a gang
- Victim of attempted rape
- Drugged to the point of hospitalisation
- Sexually harassed for years
- Sexually abused
- Long term relationship that was physically and emotionally abusive
- Followed by a second (not quite as long) long term relationship that was controlling and abusive