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He/Him. Business Analyst. Background in accounting, psychology & applied statistics. Knitting & Crochet Guild member.
Werewolf snuggler.
Shamanic Witch & student of the Unnamed Path. Death Doula in training.

2 years ago a major university asked me to come in to give a quick pitch on how I may be able to make their campus more neuroaffirming.

I said that I don’t do free meetings of this nature, but they assured me it was a pitch for 15-20 minutes to see if they’d be interested in a full meeting.

Like many autistic professionals in such situations, I reluctantly agreed.

The β€œ15-20 minute chat” turned into an hour of asking and prodding me for information. It was implied that we would begin a professional relationship after some β€œchecking with higher ups”.

After following up multiple times, with no reply, I was told that they were not interested in pursuing any of my ideas. It sucked, I was out 2 hours with travel without being paid, but thought that’s what it is and I moved on with life. Another β€œaffirming” group taking advantage of autistic people’s labour and bodies.

Today I ran into a one of the people who sat in on said meeting. They attended a lecture I gave today for university administrators on building neuro-affirming university campuses (for which I was paid today). You can imagine my surprise when they told me with a big smile that they had implemented my ideas and built an entire team of β€œND affirming” professionals. They used my ideas, my implementation plan, my program ideas, and then hired others to do it for them. Never bothered to pay me for that.

You can imagine my further surprise when this person said β€œoh that’s a great idea you just made in your talk. We should hire someone to do that!” and walked away, super proud of the β€œnew idea” they came up with.

This person is, of course, NT.

Autistic people know the feeling of not being heard. Of people taking our art, our ideas, our lives, and making them their own, with no recognition. We know what it is to be paid nothing for our work, while NT people doing the same thing are paid in loads. And if you’re not a man or white, you know this on a number of levels.

So many of those claiming to care about affirming autistic lives are full of autisiphobis and ableism.

Our minds and bodies aren’t worthless. It’s our minds and bodies that make the world go around.

@actuallyautistic #ActuallyAutistic @disabilityjustice

Are we ready for the annual quest?

(starts Friday)

The musical episode of Doom Patrol was pretty amazing, and somehow still not the most batshit insane plot on that show which I love to pieces ❀️
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This is one of the first three comics I ever made, when I was just making them on a whim. It was inspired by one of my favorite Cyanide and Happiness comics, but in fox form!

#webcanids #animals #comics #webcomics #cartoon #furry #foxes #fox #redfox

Apologies for another Mastodon meta-post, but you might have heard that you can "follow #hashtags" on here. It took me a little while to understand what that actually meant, so I wanted to share.

If you go to the page for a specific #hashtag you should be able to find a control to start following it.

After that, your home feed will show posts not only from the specific people you're following, but also the hashtags.

This provides an excellent means of discovery across the #fediverse!

Looks like some knucklehead has reported my Twitter account for spamming. Account limited for next 3 days.