🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ | level 33 ✌️ | introverted nerd 🤓 | neurodivergent & disabled 🎭 | bookworm 📚 | writer ✍🏻 | Passing is for strangers! 💜 | Imagine Peace 🕊️ |
Writes here mostly in English, sometimes German.
| Pronouns | he/they |
| Labels | queer, genderfluid, nonbinary, genderqueer, demisexual, pansexual, panromantic |
Something I really had a hard time to unlearn: that it's not creepy to make an earnestly meant compliment.
The "girl in boy drag" mode of my brain would think: you would so much love to make a compliment about this dress, but you're a guy, this will feel creepy to them.
Which certainly in itself is not correct, although there are a lot of creepy guys out there.
Once you start to receive compliments by yourself from women or trans folks you find out: this is so uplifting!
Next step: try out a careful little compliment yourself. How did THAT feel? Nice, eh?
Good morning, it's 6 am here in Germany and I'm already up because I fell asleep early yesterday. Huhu.
At least, it's dawning.
United States of America: Our citizens have the most freedom of people in the world! FREEDOM!
Me: Oh sweet! *transes my gender*
USA: No, not like that
Having deleted the bird app, that is now an X app, feels good.
From my experience, Mastodon is much nicer, you don't get attacked and harassed for every #trans post you're sending off. People respect each other more here, as far as I can tell.
And I'm happy to find some of my former Twitter friends here as well. That makes me feel more connected.
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