@debuggingolympia Happy to help, I just wish I had better news. 😔 I feel your pain on this. I'm stuck with an F on all my US paperwork till the greencard is updated (ETA April 2028 (yes, really; and it might get even worse if they gut the state department... Though at that point, maybe another year of waiting might save me, depending on 2028 elections)).

@debuggingolympia Personally, I decided to change to the other binary option out of a mixture of personal safety and convenience. (My passport is not US, but I live here and my greencard update is pending and I guess I'll see what happens when it's finally processed).

@debuggingolympia The best sources of information are ACLU and Lambda legal (each have a law suit for this). Jerner Law Group is also generally a good source of information about LGBTQIA+ legal issues. They're specialized for PA and NY but federal law is included.
Last I heard (late June), gender marker changes are currently not possible and the general advice is to sit tight and wait till things are more certain unless you're about to travel.

@elly ah, schade 🤣🤣