Software is a collection of ideas and decisions that a person has turned into a machine.
When it turns out that person has repulsive, noxious and dehumanizing ideas, it is entirely reasonable to not want the machines they've made in your life, or the decisions they've made affecting your life.
It is entirely reasonable to object to their being part of communities you care about, and to object to their ideas and decisions being normalized or valorized.
Nothing about this is complicated.
Blocked off time in my calendar to exercise, to try and build good habits and lower stress.
Turns out that a 6:30am push notification that just says "RUN" is not relaxing or helpful.
at some point in my life i had to explain who donald knuth was to a table of not-cs type people
"he wrote a book about programs, then a program to write books, and then wrote a book about the program, in the program to write books"