@codythedragonrude I've spoken to a lot of trans people, and I have not gotten that impression...at all.
I know nothing about Keffals as a person, but even if she were bad or crazy, it's wrong to generalize that to trans people in general.
As for Kiwi Farms, my understanding is that Cloudflare dropped them because after the initial decision on Cloudflare's part to keep them, the denizens of that site got high on a sense of invincibility to the point where they were openly plotting to plant bombs in Northern Ireland.
Centralized Internet services being chokepoints is a concern; but Kiwi Farms is probably the worst model to point at for this. If you really want to point at Cloudflare and others for something, look at what happened to Switter.