@Crissy ⁂ Geco 🇨🇦🧨
That's not a flaw; it's often a feature designed for connection and pleasure!
It is not a flaw. I think it is also nature's way to perpetuate the species. A lot of us, including myself, are "accidents." They weren't thinking about making a baby, but they got one anyway.

Well, it does make sense. Sex of any kind impairs cognitive performance... temporarily. When people get horny, they stop thinking clearly and sometimes do irrational things. The urge to have sex is that powerful that it can override logic in the heat of the moment. That's why it's important to plan ahead (birth control, rules, etc.), because you won't be thinking clearly during the act itself and shortly thereafter. You will be feeling instead thinking (if you are doing it right).

And that may have been what they were actually measuring. We all have a logical side and an emotional side. There is a lot of logic that goes into mate selection for many people, but the sex act itself is usually an emotional endeavor. The better the sex, the more one gives into their emotional side, allowing themselves to enjoy it.

It might just be that the people who watch more porn know how to enjoy themselves more than those who don't. You would get the same effect with anyone having any kind of sex.

And anything that feels good can become an addiction. It's an interesting study, but it sounds like they don't know much about how sex in general works.

@Crissy ⁂ Geco 🇨🇦🧨 @Emelia 👸🏻

@Crissy ⁂ Geco 🇨🇦🧨 I never watched that one, but it looks like an interesting movie.

@Crissy ⁂ Geco 🇨🇦🧨 I never saw the movie, but reading the plot on Wikipedia does make it sounds like a horror film.

@Jesse Karmani Because I felt unsafe. Since they were being punished by guilt by association rather than what they personally did, I was afraid that if I associated myself with them by proposing a session related to them, I would be attacked or ostracized myself. So the best thing to do was to not speak.

Basically, you created the same feeling I get being around normies, that feeling of being unsafe to be myself and say what I really feel. I no longer felt that @FediForum was a safe space.

@Jesse Karmani But this was an opportunity to get people from within their organization on our side, and show them that their fears and stereotypes about us are wrong.

We can keep pushing people away and being hostile to outsiders, but that would just result in more people being hostile towards us. Or we can talk to outsiders, and show them we are human just like them, and dispel the negative stereotypes they have about us.

That is more important than getting a disavowal, and if you still want a disavowal, they are more likely to give one if they interact with us and realize we're not the threat they were lead to believe.

Not all cis are like that. And not all people who look cis are cis.