re-watching 500 Days of Summer, which is a horror story, not a romantic film

it’s an anxious dating an avoidant:
he projects, she distances
he idealizes her, she keeps him arms length

1st watched this when i was married to (someone i now realize as) fearful avoidant: he absolutely loved this film while I thought it was cringe

I now watch it as a single woman survivor of a dismissive avoidant 😬

Tell me what u think of the ending

#AttachmentTheory

@Crissy ⁂ Geco πŸ‡¨πŸ‡¦πŸ§¨ I never saw the movie, but reading the plot on Wikipedia does make it sounds like a horror film.

@lola hello Lola! thank you for the comment. I stand by my comment as a lover of horror films

Have you seen the film Warm Bodies (comedic zombie romance)? Despite being in horror genre, this is more romantic to me than 500 Days of Summer (LOL)