re-watching 500 Days of Summer, which is a horror story, not a romantic film
itβs an anxious dating an avoidant:
he projects, she distances
he idealizes her, she keeps him arms length
1st watched this when i was married to (someone i now realize as) fearful avoidant: he absolutely loved this film while I thought it was cringe
I now watch it as a single woman survivor of a dismissive avoidant π¬
Tell me what u think of the ending