@luvstiger All good ideas. "Movement by David" is a pretty good youtube channel focused on mobility and flexibility.

Tea also has theanine which synergizes with the caffeine and mitigates a lot of the negative effects caffeine has on stress, physiology, and attention. In any case, caffeine has a ridiculously long half-life and can interfere with sleep even 6 hours after consumption. If I know that I'm going to bed in the next 1-2 hours, I'll take 0.5mg of melatonin and try to reduce screen time to the minimum; it's a perfect time to do some cleaning up and brush teeth.

@rabynya I have a fair number of friends who are into mixing trauma/abuse dynamics with ageplay, including myself. The hardest part is choosing not to indulge when unsafe -- not just failing to get consent and aftercare, but sometimes the act itself reinforces the trauma or makes both partners feel like monsters. Sometimes you go into it knowing the dangers and choosing to close your eyes.

But sometimes it hits just right.

@luvstiger I've tried playing arcade ports of DDR on my home setup and it just doesn't feel the same. There's an entire vibe to physically going out and playing on a machine you don't own, possibly impressing people you don't know.

One thing I was briefly fascinated by is "Wife" timing implemented by the Etterna creator, which gives score based on ms deviation on a smooth curve, instead of being within a timing window.