Rowan Sep 11, 2023

I was wondering what folks opinions are on dark ageplay/mixing ageplay with other darker or harder kinks.

This isn't about art or anything I'm planning on really, I just realized I finally have a place outside of Twitter (and the cesspit of angry users that reside there) that I could get a large range of opinions on the subject.

Gonna put a poll for some common opinions, should folks not wanna comment, but I would love to hear personal opinions or experiences with this subject too!
Multiple answers can be selected!

All kinks can be mixed, consent is most important
41.1%
I personally like Dark Ageplay
11%
I don't personally like Dark Ageplay
8.2%
I think Dark/Hard kinks should be mixed with Ageplay, when appropriate
5.5%
Mixing Dark/Hard kinks with Ageplay is fine, but shouldn't be promoted
2.7%
Neutral opinion, kinks are kinks and not for everyone
12.3%
I don't think Dark/Hard kinks should be mixed with Ageplay, in general
0%
Dark Ageplay is inherently bad and can be harmful
0%
Dark Ageplay is not inherently bad and can be therapeutic
19.2%
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Show threadGrif🐱

@rabynya I have a fair number of friends who are into mixing trauma/abuse dynamics with ageplay, including myself. The hardest part is choosing not to indulge when unsafe -- not just failing to get consent and aftercare, but sometimes the act itself reinforces the trauma or makes both partners feel like monsters. Sometimes you go into it knowing the dangers and choosing to close your eyes.

But sometimes it hits just right.

Sep 11, 2023 at 6:09pmWeb