@Xjs
You're not invisible. I have seen you (offline) on at least two different occasions (though on the second one, you were too distracted when I tried to say hi).

Describing people (in few enough words to fit in a toot) is really difficult, and your post felt like I would need a lot of spoons to come up with an appropriately thoughtful answer. Spoons which I didn't have when I read it.

An important use case of social media for me is to get a little bit of (mostly passive) insight into what people I know are doing. That already helps a lot to not completely lose track in between meeting them offline (maybe) once every few years. So even infrequent posts are still good :)

@robyneatseverything
not sure how reproducible that is, but I once got from "throat so sore that I can't speak" to "kinda ok" within a day by drinking a lot of ... uh... basically very strong ginger tea: cut fresh ginger into slices, put them in a pot with water, and boil it until the color stops getting darker (it should become brown-ish but not opaque). Let it cool down enough to not get burned by the boiling water, and add some sugar before drinking.

I usually wouldn't drink something that is spicy-hot like this, but not being able to speak was way worse than "burning" my throat with spicy ginger tea.

Anyone wanna show their favorite outfit for kink parties, and tell me what you like about it (and, optionally, also what you don't like about it)?

Bonus points if you're also a soft cuddly person like me, who's not into painful things ^^

Oh, and of course I'm also thinking about clothes I would like to sew, to wear at events like this in the future.

It's probably impossible to come up with something that fulfills everything I'd like... mostly because no one has yet invented a closure mechanism that holds together well, is quick and easy to open and close, and feels as soft as the fabric itself.

Imagine having clothes that feel soft and cozy, for cuddling, or tying rope over them, or whatever... but are also easy to take off and/or open in various places, so your skin is quickly accessible... and they don't pinch or scratch or have annoying hard parts that poke into your skin when you're laying/leaning on them (or someone else is).

@nightscy
@Xjs
Yeah, tbh this is mostly about follower-only posts in my case.

Now I wonder: if someone has moved accounts with the official account moving feature, and someone else follows their new account (after that), is there any way for that person to also see follower-only posts from the old account? I'm not sure if following an account that has been moved is even possible...?

@scy
Hmm, would you count a situation, or a power dynamic, as an act or a thing?
And what about a feeling (the sensual or emotional kind), is that an act or a thing?

I'm not sure which option to pick here... intuitively, it feels like many of my kinks are concepts(?) in between them, that could be phrased in both ways.

Slight tendency towards "act", because there are some that definitely only fit that description. Can't think of any own examples that *only* fit the "thing/person" option.

The more I'm thinking about it, the more I tend towards the "act" option.
Yeah, I think I'll choose that one... and leave this here as my thought process of understanding the question.

@skalabyrinth
Hmm... spezifisch "ein queeres Label" am ehesten im Bezug auf irgendwelche Mikro-Labels aus dem A-spec... einerseits weil ich oft keine Lust hätte, die Begriffe zu erklären, und die sonst leicht falsch verstanden werden - und andererseits weil es doch manchmal Ausnahmen gibt, wo ich dann unsicher bin, ob dieses Label überhaupt wirklich zu mir passt.

Allgemein bezeichne ich mich schon oft als "queer" - erlebe aber manchmal ein Imposter-Gefühl in als "queer" gelabelten Räumen, wenn ich merke, dass ich die einzige cis Person dort bin... also irgendwie so der Eindruck, dass dort mit "queer" eigentlich implizit "trans" gemeint war, und ich dann dafür nicht queer genug bin :/

(nicht sicher inwiefern das nun noch genau als Antwort zu deiner Frage passt, aber das ist zumindest, was mir dazu eingefallen ist)