it’s been a few weeks and a slow roll out to close friends but i said yes to @eshamow

i’m grateful for the healing and joy Eric brought to our lives, and i’m so excited to be engaged to someone this ethical, brilliant, astute, kind, funny, silly, dorky, thoughtful, nuanced, and poetic. i never thought i’d find another techie with an artist’s soul and an activist’s heart, never mind someone who shares the same principles in parenting and loves people with the intensity and softness of an ocean

Eric has made me feel so loved, safe, supported, seen, heard — this is a relationship of co-mentoring and mutual support, it’s such a gift to never run out of things to talk about, i can’t believe we just get to code art music game and movies together all the time ❤️

currently we are still long distance— i imagine that will change soon, we are working on it ☺️ don’t know what the future holds but it’s going to be good

"the pitfalls of perfectionism" LinkedIn post from ex-CTO guy who thought testing and security were "nice to haves" and also told devs they could merge their own code because technically committing and merging were two separate operations

ok bro