more #onblorbing tips for becoming connected on fedi 
you can follow (and create) interest specific groups that allow you to see and interact with people with the same interest! more details about how this works here: https://fedi.tips/how-to-use-groups-on-the-fediverse/
an example is @oldmanyaoi . everyone that follows this guppe group loves yaoi with old guys and thats basically all that's talked about and shared! but there are TONS of other guppes for others interests like crochet, painting, film, music... the sky is the limit! π΄β₯οΈπ§
if there's not already a group for your niche, you can make one very easily! in a post, just @ β@yourgroupnamehere @ a.gup.peβ (no spaces) with whatever you want to name your group. if you build it, they will come