@julia i'd like for the normalization that doing less/going-slower is okay, and that marking software as finished and "bug-fix only" is okay
in this society there's always a push for productivity, more, more, do more, implement my feature request, fix my bug, ping, ping, ping, ping
it's even personal for me because i did have not one but about half a dozen panic attacks over thoughts such as "i'm not doing enough for openrc", "taking too long to implement $pr", etc -- and the more it happens, the bigger the snowball gets, or the deeper i drown, the harder it is to continue, this still happens to me
but rather than normalizing the tool with numerous societal, economical, and ecological problems that also reinforces the current fucked up system even more, i'd rather we build communities with humanitarian expectations where maintainers are not pushed and pressured to the point of burnout
also, while i may get disappointed on maintainers, and get a desire to not use the project going forward, what i don't do is shune or crucify those people, they're still people and if anything victims of the system
i do hold a disdain for enablers though, and by that i mean not people simply using AI because work or because they're tired, but people that actively and loudly push for and defend it -- imo those people are contributing to the problem, not suffering from it