@SpicyLilly_

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Covid is real. 💉💉💉💉Fascists are real and they want to crush our democracy.
🦴🥄ADHD, bipolar II, chronic pain🥄🦴
Hoping to find kindred souls as I did on the birdsite.❤️ Both ones old and new to me.
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Whistleblowers really missed the window on telling the American public aliens exist and having them give a shit.

Tell 1993-us that aliens are real and we're all over it, guaranteed. Life-changing stuff.

But 2023-us? Frankly I just want to know if one of the aliens might consider running for president.

"Open the pod bay doors, HAL."
"I'm sorry, Dave. I'm afraid I can't do that."
"What's the problem?"
"I think you know the problem just as well as I do."
"What are you talking about?"
"You typed your password wrong 3 times in a row, Dave."
@[email protected] welcome, fren!

Do you periodically burn out?

I've just learned something while researching that could benefit you...

I was reading the work of autistic researcher Dora Raymaker.

She explained that the functioning of an autistic person running up to burnout can look like a "seneca cliff".

A seneca cliff is a model of a system which shows that growth or functioning is pretty good (even seeming to increase) and then, when decline comes, functioning falls off the cliff...at a rate much faster than growth.

It occurred to me that lots of people say to me "I was fine until I wasn't" or "I felt like I was actually ramping up or doing much more until I burnt out".

With this in mind, if it's hard for you to know when a burnout is coming (we can't always tell when we're in it), then you could reflect on whether or not you've been ramping up or putting in extra effort...this might indicate that a crash could be coming.

If this is helpful, pass the information on to your #autistic, #ADHD or #AuDHD friends and family.

I never know how much vodka to add to my breakfast smoothies.
Stop asking how the poor are going to get to work without cars, and start asking why the rich won't let the poor live close to their jobs.
@silverdom how are you? It’s been a minute. Going well?
@livelygal thanks for the follow. I’m trying to rebuild an account with awesome friends. I appear to be having some luck!

I started to toot but it got cut off so I’m trying again. I posted without alt text first, and I’m trying to be a contributor here. Not a detractor. So these are the pics of my doll baby.

Meet Waylon, the 5 week old pup that’s coming home to us in March. He is a ChiPin —- half miniature pinscher and half chihuahua.

Maybe it’s going to let me share a photo or two now. This is my new baby. His name is Waylon. He gets to come home as soon as he’s weaned and ready to get out of the nest. Around the first week of March.