I've shared some thoughts on here before about learning to communicate with your cat. I might try to find that thread and link it.
Here's another tip.
You don't need to spend hundreds on one of those cat talker pads. It's easy to teach your cat to answer yes or no questions. Teaching them some words first is useful, but "treat" and "nip" are a good place to start this training.
Sometimes Midnight meows at me randomly, I ask, while exaggerating the question tone, "Do you want a treat?" If she meows, I treat it like a yes. I give her a treat. If she stays silent, I'll ask her the next thing. "Midnight, do you want nip?" Same deal. Meow, she gets nip. Silent, I'll move to the next thing. "Do you want lovin'?" (That's our word for pets.)
I'll usually only do these three, but sometimes mix it up, like playing, or when I used to dance with her. It does require consistency, but eventually they'll learn the meow = yes formula, because sometimes they don't WANT a treat but they get one anyway! (Before she caught on I'd lecture her a bit when she refused what she'd said yes to.)
Then you can move to more useful questions. Like going outside, while it's still cold out in this new place where she's not comfortable out there yet. I want to be sure she's consenting to go out so she doesn't freak out and get stuck hiding under the porch again 😬. So I ask, and then don't bother if she stays silent.
Once they catch on, any word you've taught your cat, you can ask if they want it.
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