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Pansexual Birb, He/Him,
This space is about birbs, anarchy, and furry trash.
This space is about birbs, anarchy, and furry trash.
NEXT WEEK ON LEWD TUTORIALS
Taking EVEN BIGGER DICKS/KNOTS and HOW TO DEAL WITH ANAL INJURY.
I felt those two would probably go well together. See you all next week my lovely Lewdites!
If you have a partner with a large dick, especially in terms of girth, then using a dildo as a form of foreplay is actually a good way to prepare yourself for them, especially if they are the one controlling the dildo. It might even be necessary in some cases to make sexual intercourse safe and fun rather than awkward and painful. If you were wrestling you'd probably do stretches and warm-up first to avoid hurting yourselves, you should probably have the same attitude towards extreme anal.
Austin has a pretty ideal knot shape for going in, and as knotted dildos go is a pretty good model for beginners. He has what I call a "riding knot" which can go in and come out with relative ease, although all knots are designed to put up at least some resistance in either direction. A "plugging knot" is the opposite, is usually hard to get in, and once it is in is very difficult to remove. My Rex has this kind of knot, and my Hunter is somewhere in between the two of them.
When you are ready to take it out, pull out with only a slight bit of pressure while also assuming a squatting position and using the same muscle relaxation you would use when taking a really big shit. If I squat in the tub I can expel it pretty consistently without even using my hands, especially if it was well-lubricated going in.
The first time you ever take a knot it will feel like a big fucking deal. Get good enough at this through practice and you can eventually knot-fuck like a pro.
That first "pop" in should bulge your eyes out of your skull. You will KNOW when you are knotted. Even a small knot like Austin's will give you a sense of "fullness" that really should have its own word. Now, in a worst case scenario this can be awkward and painful immediately, but if you are fortunate this can be a feeling of sexual ecstasy. Experimentally apply pressure to the dildo in different directions, including lightly pulling it back while clenching to keep it inside.
Apply pressure but never for more than 30 seconds at a time before giving the inner-sphincter a break for at least an equal amount of time, if not another minute while you go back to doing something less intensive. Take it slow and do it in cycles until you either manage to slip the knot in, or you get tired/bored/manage to cum anyway. If the latter grouping happens, don't feel too bad (especially if you came), I already said this would probably take multiple attempts.
If you took the knot..
If you took the knot..
Once the shaft moving inside you is basically a somewhat-arousing but not exactly thrilling feeling, you'll know you're loose enough to grind the knot. Push it up against your sphincter and try to get it inside the "airlock" space between the inner and outer sphincters, if you can. Move it around in this space and push its girth up against your inner sphincter while trying as hard as you can to relax. Again, don't feel bad if it doesn't go in, even a little.
That is supposed to be "a knot" but whatever.
Remember the correct positioning for easily taking dick when trying to take a knot for the first time. Rather than using a rig, just assume a squatting position while laying in a chair on on your back and guide the dildo with your hand, so you can control the pressure with exact precision. At this point you should be capable of riding the shaft, so before you even try to take the knot, move the shaft in and out until you feel comfortable.
A not is "accepted-in" by the anal muscles. It must push, but it is at most half push, and half the inner-sphincter opening to receive it's prize. It shouldn't be forced, it is something that must be *allowed* to happen. Forcing it only makes your sphincter resist harder. The key, as always, is to relax. Also important, for taking a knot there really is no such thing as "too much lube." Use as much as you think you'll need, and then use some more.
This tip is endorsed by the makers of lube.
The key to taking a knot, for somebody starting out with them, is patience. There is no shame in not taking it during a session where you intended to, that failure is just one more step on your path to eventual success. Even if you don't feel you are making the progress you want, any attempt is always progress.
A knot is not forced-in, at least not ideally, and trying to force one in is how people end up getting hurt or with a knot stuck in them that they can't get back out again.