This is what being rich means to me.
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This is what being rich means to me.
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@lothcat ๐ Enough is enough. More than enough is for sharing. ๐
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I'm starting to really understand that this is the wealth of community more than money
@lothcat Yes - broadly concur. To me, being rich would be about hearing someone is struggling, and saying "What can I do to help? Do you want to come and stay for a week? Can i order you something?"
It is always about helping other people, in their own crisis. Providing support for people who need it.
And - longer term - looking to see what I can do to make peoples lives better. Can I buy up properties to rent, at low rental? Can I invest in peoples companies?
I had a partner years ago who used to tell me that their goal was to have slightly more than enough, so they could afford to be generous.
Their wisdom stuck with me far after we parted ways.
It's not easy to explain to people who don't think that way that most people think that way.

@lothcat It's odd how very rich people seem often to be thinking about money all the time, and worrying about it, and having to step out of things to deal with it., and having opinions on it. It seems weirdly like being poor.
I think there must be a sweet-spot somewhere. Being rich should mean not having to think about money because you've enough.
@chiffchaff @lothcat very rich people donโt think about money all the time; thatโs a thing that happens to people who are rich but desperately want to become very rich.
The very rich literally hire people to worry about money for them. Itโs very strange to watch.
I once suddenly felt the strong presence of a person who was not concerned with money at all. It startled me, and I looked up and saw a man, too far away to make out his face. I let myself explore the feeling as he walked closer because it was a complete novelty to me. There were concerns, but money was not involved. It was such an experience, to suddenly feel how much money worries are part of my daily life. We were walking closer to each other. Weirdly, he had noticed me, too. So there was the money freedom, and the awareness of each other, which both felt so unexpected. It turned out to be Paul McCartney. As we met, he said, "yes love, it is me."
I held onto that feeling of not being afraid of not having enough money for as long as I could.
Exactly
@lothcat Oh, what is that from? That totally sums it up.
I don't want money for money's sake, I just want to be able to not worry and for bonus points be able to do nice things for other people. I don't really want have a big hoard of money to buy stuff I don't need.*
* Except a Batmobile. I do dream of owning a working replica of the Adam West-era Batmobile. But it would be an EV so as not to be as bad for the environment. Still gonna make flames come out the back, though.
@jzb Someone shared a link to the source, so I've added it to my post.
One big treat for yourself, then share the rest, sounds like a good plan.
@lothcat Reminds me of the society in Ursula K. LeGuin's "Always Coming Home" who considered you poor if you had a lot of stuff, and rich if you did not, because the natural thing to do with a lot of stuff is give it away,
It wasn't just that hoarding stuff earned you the reputation of being miserly and maybe a little wrong in the head, though it did - the hoarding was considered a symptom of actual poverty.
I think I need to reread that book now.
yep
So true - when it boils down we donโt need a lot to live a contented life