yes, i have an oral fixation (a fixation on getting head)
@cyb3rm0shp1t infohazardous post
@nyx with recent discourses on deranged hell sites, i had to make my stance on the matter clear. also my gf is great
@cyb3rm0shp1t why is there discourse about this >_>
@nyx terf radfems
@cyb3rm0shp1t @nyx did the department of redundancy department come up with that phrase, or do you have RAS Syndrome?
@Willow @cyb3rm0shp1t @nyx the only thing worse than terf radfems are the trans exclusionary ones 
@Willow @nyx @cyb3rm0shp1t @kittenlikeasmallcat y’all are joking but there are a ton of weirdos on fedi who think a terf can be a trans woman
@cmdr_nova @nyx @cyb3rm0shp1t @kittenlikeasmallcat bigotry is intersectional so yes they can. there are homophobic gays and Nazi pedophiles
@Willow @cyb3rm0shp1t @nyx @kittenlikeasmallcat if you’re calling trans women terfs you may as well just go join the incel crew of trans dudes pushing this narrative over on the instances they run
@cmdr_nova @cyb3rm0shp1t @nyx @kittenlikeasmallcat I'm not calling trans women terfs lol I'm just saying it's possible for people to be two contradictory things at the same time
@Willow @cmdr_nova @cyb3rm0shp1t @kittenlikeasmallcat @nyx yes but not this contradiction, no, definitionally if someone is a terf they don’t believe trans women are women, so being a terf means one cannot simultaneously consider oneself a trans woman, this isn’t like a question of generalities here it’s something transmisogynists levy against us ad there is no reason for any sister to defend it
@winter @cmdr_nova @cyb3rm0shp1t @kittenlikeasmallcat @nyx how is it not like homophobic gays?
@Willow a "homophobic gay" is something wildly different than calling a trans woman a "TERF"

homophobia is a system of pointed hate, like transmisogyny, tranphobia. A TERF is a thing, a person, a trans exclusionary radical feminist. The way the nazis called themselves socialists, the TERF calls themselves feminist.

And honestly, this is becoming such a widespread thing on the fediverse that even after all the things I've seen happen here, I'm starting to think a male dominated space where people are being convinced that trans women can also be the violent oppressor that seeks to exterminate them, might just be a bad space

and yes, I know you completely skipped over all of my replies and pretended I wasn't here, I don't care

@winter @cyb3rm0shp1t @kittenlikeasmallcat @nyx
@Willow @winter @cyb3rm0shp1t @kittenlikeasmallcat @nyx I wouldn't even call Blaire White or Caitlyn Jenner a TERF, they're just horrendously misinformed and simping for the side that they think will ensure their survival, because, well. I don't know a nice way to put it, so I'm not going to say it. I wouldn't call Laurelai Bailey a TERF, even though her entire existence revolves around horrific abuse, even though I know full-well she's the reason all of my social circles were destroyed. Still not a TERF, tho