If I buy something off Vinted and the seller is attractive, I flirt with them via messaging. Body count is four and rising.

@fesshole OK, so, quite a lot to unpack here.

Firstly, creep.

Secondly, body count? Is this person a serial killer?

@hedders @fesshole body count is also used as a term for how many people one has slept with
@fesshole Are you also counting the people who are creeped out by you? Those who stop selling on Vinted because people are constantly trying to hit on them?
@scy @fesshole "nobody wants to flirt anymore" in 3 ... 2 ...
@fesshole Fuck off, this is creepy, and women are constantly complaining about this particular issue

@nesdy

I agree, and I'd never flirt in that setting, even if I weren't married.

However…

People using Vinted are usually buying clothes for themselves. So Fessor is probably flirting with people of the same sex. Since Vinted is mostly about women's clothes, there's a good chance that Fessor is a lesbian. Does that change anything?

@fesshole

@CppGuy @fesshole I still find it creepy to flirt with someone in that context to be honest, but I'm not a sapphic woman

@nesdy

I agree. There's a time and a place, and this isn't it.

@fesshole

@fesshole Oh, you're one of those. 🚮🚮🚮
@fesshole everyone assumes they are a he. Very likely is