My husband doesn't bother to listen to anything I say so I've stopped telling him anything about myself. It's just delivery of information now. He hasn't noticed. I'm gutted but I'll never leave because of the children.
@fesshole He doesn't notice precisely because he doesn't listen. And if he's not far better as a father than as a husband, maybe you should reconsider.
@fesshole you and your children deserve a better life. Leave. Be happy and free. Get therapy. Your children will adjust and not subject themselves to a relationship like yours.
@fesshole leave anyway. Your children will suffer no matter what you choose unfortunately. Might as well give yourself a chance of happiness in that case
@fesshole "for the kids" mf its never good for the kids if you stay in a relationship like that, you set an example for the kids, don't put up with something you wouldn't want them to put up with.