We have a set of mugs at home that are all the same style, but different colours. One colour I personally dislike over all the others. If im pissed off with my wife I make her coffee using the worst coloured mug. That will show her.
@fesshole ahh the passive-aggressive cup ploy

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We need a Fesshole rubber stamp:

Talk to your spouse.

@CppGuy
This one doesn't need that stamp: they're making her coffee instead of lashing out on her, and calm themselves down simply with a choice of mug. Pretty healthy to me. Not all bad mood swings need a discussion.
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@fesshole Hope you don’t find out what your wife does in your mug when you are out.
@fesshole Plot twist: it's her favourite, but OP doesn't know.

@Eetschrijver @fesshole

He would know if they communicated

@fesshole this cant be real, a normal and (as things go) relatively healthy fess? I must be dreaming...