realitistaWhen women have a crush on men
I feel seen. Been with my partner for over 10 years and I feel the same way as the dad in this text exchange.
It is unclear whether my wife liked me, but she does make it clear when she does not. Kinda like a cat.
Hahahaja
Did you just laugh with a spanish accent? Nice
We typically have no idea unless explicitly told, no.
Even then, maybe she’s just nice. Or canadian
MelodiousFunkI knew a nice Canadian that had a crush on me once. I still messed it up.
Damn. I’ve watched Letterkenny. You messed up.
gandalf_der_12tei don’t click the link but i know which video it is
Edit: Is she into you? - Casually Explained
WonderRin
peoplebeproblemsYeah, see, my girlfriend just right out told me. But we’re both AuADHD. So you know, things happen impulsively and directly.
I asked her on a date, she said yes. We get to the date we have fun, we have a long night out, she goes home and texts me “I like you.”
Yep. Which is a good thing too because I liked her and was a lot nervous about that.
God damn that’s the dream. This chick at the store smiles at me a lot and giggles when I’m nearby. I like hearing her laugh and seeing her smile and don’t want things to get awkward, so I’m not saying anything :/
Just give her your phone number.
Aw yeah. There was this beauty at the store that, in hindsight, obviously gave me the eye. I wanted to ask her to a coffee the next time, but then she already wasn’t around anymore. Don’t be too late.
just ask her out.
she will say yes or no. anything that isn’t ‘yes!’ is a no.
ThatWeirdGuy1001The problem with doing something like that is it can make the situation awkward permanently afterwards
it’s already permanently awkward
ShaggySnacksBe direct with “Hey, I noticed that you smile a lot at me and giggle when I am around. If you want to talk outside of the store. Can I give you my phone number?”
If she’s an employee and your a customer, don’t ask her for her phone number or out when she’s working. She will feel trapped and pressured to say yes. However. by giving her your number she gets to decide if they moves forward or not. If you are co-workers, same advice. Don’t ask her out or her number. Give her your number, let her decide to move forward or not.
Also respect any boundaries she has.
Ricky RigatoniEven if we’re explicitly told the first twenty times we’ll just think she’s being nice.
A lot of the time we do know, but we’re terrified of getting it wrong and getting rejected and maybe worse.
MinnesotaGoddamafter being rejected 100 times in a row for “ew gross i don’t associate disabled people” when after a couple dates i let them see me take a blood pressure pill (hadn’t even let them see any of my massive collection of scars except my arm and face, which i can’t exactly hide without michael jacksoning) you kind of just start making fairly accurate assumptions about the women in your society
Axolotlthere are better ways to vet potential dates
Hahahahahahahaha hahahahaha.
That’s one of those easy things for me to overshare. I take half a dozen pills daily to function. If they aren’t, or at least don’t know why I take them, it ain’t gonna work.
The actual like, really disabling thing about me isn’t any of the things I’m treated for. It’s my sleep disorder. I still have to show up to my 9-5. My kid still has arrival and pickup times at school. Banks are only open 9-5.
I’ve found that women with treated or untreated disabilities understand this shit way more than normies. That’s not to say go look for them, but don’t try to fit into an ablist mask, that’s far more harmful
don’t try to fit into an ablist mask, that’s far more harmful
it took me so so long to learn that one
svelteciderBeen there. Not blaming women either. Men are equally ableist.
Women and men are ableist because society as a whole is ableist.
One rejection in college had me pegged as a creep to the point many of my own friends stopped talking to me. All I did was ask someone to get some tea once but I guess I didn’t do the mating dance right or something idk.
Was a pretty powerful lesson in seeing how people will believe what they want to believe. I guess it’s the same for many of the “creeps” and “sluts” out there.
I rejected a girl in college and she went around telling everyone she could that I sexually harassed her.
She got her comeuppance and got booted out of school after she did it to other guys too, but it was terrifying for that brief window when people believed her. I’d be eating lunch and random weirdos would come up to me and go ‘I KNOW WHAT YOU DID YOU FUCKING CREEP!’
That really is not ok, sorry bro. This happened to a friend of mine too, and I saw what that did to him. It’s so much worse than people realize. He nearly got kicked out of school over it even.
What saved him was the same thing that saved you: she was stupid enough to make a pattern out of the behaviour. That said it didn’t make it all better, because he no longer trusted the people who abandoned him. The social dynamics of that group never recovered.
I had a couple of people apologize to me after she was found out. That was cool. But most didn’t.
People love to make up fake bullshit. I had another issue with this other woman… that I never ever even met who kept going around telling other people who I slept with her and how shit in bed it was. I literally never met her, but people told me about it. Maybe she had a crush or something. it was fucking weird.
I was at some fast food joint with a buddy and his girlfriend, and after ordering my friend’s girlfriend told me the cashier was so flirting with me.
Me and my friend: What? She was? How so?
edgemaster72Nah I don’t trust it, she was just being nice cuz it’s her job
Your buddies girl was the one flirting with you.
I used to own a retail shop, and I had one young woman assistant who had a sixth sense about those things. I’d wait on a customer, and after they left, my assistant would say"Wow, she really had the hots for you," and I’d always be like WTF are you talking about?
SigntistA girl told me in 8th grade that she knew I liked her, and was cool with it. I thought she was nice for not being creeped out that I liked her, until one day on college when I finally realized what she meant.
Well, don’t leave us bros hanging! What did she mean?
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RamenJunkieShe lived in a refrigerator.
That’s cool
CorkyskogA girl in college told me she liked me when we were in high school, took me like two days to realize what she meant…
It’s clear that when they say they liked you in high school, it means that they don’t like you any more, and you blew your one shot. Don’t be a dick and try now, that ship has sailed.
Or it means they’ve had a long term crush on you, and are very interested. Sometimes you get little context.
Good communication is important.
If that were true, they’d say it. Don’t be that creepy guy who thinks a girl likes them just because they’re nice. - What guys believe.
I told a girl who told me she likes me that she is bluffing… 🤦♂️
Yeah she played a stupid game and won the customary prize
BroadfernThe only way a person can definitely know what’s going on in your head is by telling them with your words.
Dad might be anxious though, lol. “I do” usually means informed consent 😂
You’ve obviously never been married
I tell my husband I love him 18000 times a day, and incessantly compliment him. Been there for thick and thin. I definately compliment him wayyy more than he compliments me.
“if they didnt want to be there they wouldnt be”
how the hell do you stay in a realtionship, married for that matter, if you dont know your partner likes you?